Ty Tashiro

personality traits and you know interests and all kinds of things life experiences one of the things that happens in couples that maintain a higher degree of passionate love is they're super curious about the things that are different in their partner and they want to learn about it and they want to try to expand their own self so their own interests and personality and

to try to emulate some of those qualities as well. And so what you can imagine is you don't have just two people who are fixed circles coming together. You have two people expanding who they are, expanding their possibilities into each other. And so they grow individually, but then they also grow together as a couple.

to try to emulate some of those qualities as well. And so what you can imagine is you don't have just two people who are fixed circles coming together. You have two people expanding who they are, expanding their possibilities into each other. And so they grow individually, but then they also grow together as a couple.

to try to emulate some of those qualities as well. And so what you can imagine is you don't have just two people who are fixed circles coming together. You have two people expanding who they are, expanding their possibilities into each other. And so they grow individually, but then they also grow together as a couple.

So for couples who have been together for a long time, that's one of the best pieces of advice I could give is one would be, really interested in your differences even though they annoy you sometimes number two get some things together as a couple where it's new to both of you and you can both grow you know within learning about this thing and make it something of your own yeah i i wonder why

So for couples who have been together for a long time, that's one of the best pieces of advice I could give is one would be, really interested in your differences even though they annoy you sometimes number two get some things together as a couple where it's new to both of you and you can both grow you know within learning about this thing and make it something of your own yeah i i wonder why

So for couples who have been together for a long time, that's one of the best pieces of advice I could give is one would be, really interested in your differences even though they annoy you sometimes number two get some things together as a couple where it's new to both of you and you can both grow you know within learning about this thing and make it something of your own yeah i i wonder why

You know, one of the weird things, Chris, is people just know. I know it's a really unsatisfying answer epistemologically, but yeah, that's kind of the case. You ask married couples, this always cracks me up when I hear a single person ask a happily married couple, so how did you know that You know, this was the right person for you.

You know, one of the weird things, Chris, is people just know. I know it's a really unsatisfying answer epistemologically, but yeah, that's kind of the case. You ask married couples, this always cracks me up when I hear a single person ask a happily married couple, so how did you know that You know, this was the right person for you.

You know, one of the weird things, Chris, is people just know. I know it's a really unsatisfying answer epistemologically, but yeah, that's kind of the case. You ask married couples, this always cracks me up when I hear a single person ask a happily married couple, so how did you know that You know, this was the right person for you.

And they always give the same answer, which is you just know, which is totally unhelpful, you know, to the person who's single. But yeah, it is this kind of cliff-like phenomenon, this dichotomous thing where people just switch into it and they're like, you know what? I'm in love with this person. They might withhold that for a little bit so they don't look bonkers.

And they always give the same answer, which is you just know, which is totally unhelpful, you know, to the person who's single. But yeah, it is this kind of cliff-like phenomenon, this dichotomous thing where people just switch into it and they're like, you know what? I'm in love with this person. They might withhold that for a little bit so they don't look bonkers.

And they always give the same answer, which is you just know, which is totally unhelpful, you know, to the person who's single. But yeah, it is this kind of cliff-like phenomenon, this dichotomous thing where people just switch into it and they're like, you know what? I'm in love with this person. They might withhold that for a little bit so they don't look bonkers.

But yeah, people just, it's one of those weird things in life where we just know it.

But yeah, people just, it's one of those weird things in life where we just know it.

But yeah, people just, it's one of those weird things in life where we just know it.

It is. Yeah. And gosh, it's really inconvenient sometimes on both ends there. But I like what you said about when it comes to falling in love, though. Yeah, you can try to avoid folks that maybe, you know, are bad for you that you tend to tend to go for. On that same note, though, you can also say, hey, there are qualities in people that I really do enjoy and that I really value.

It is. Yeah. And gosh, it's really inconvenient sometimes on both ends there. But I like what you said about when it comes to falling in love, though. Yeah, you can try to avoid folks that maybe, you know, are bad for you that you tend to tend to go for. On that same note, though, you can also say, hey, there are qualities in people that I really do enjoy and that I really value.

It is. Yeah. And gosh, it's really inconvenient sometimes on both ends there. But I like what you said about when it comes to falling in love, though. Yeah, you can try to avoid folks that maybe, you know, are bad for you that you tend to tend to go for. On that same note, though, you can also say, hey, there are qualities in people that I really do enjoy and that I really value.

But sometimes for whatever reason, I don't place emphasis on those when I'm choosing partners. So yeah, you want to over-select from these pools of people who have these qualities that you know are really good for you that you don't naturally gravitate towards. By the same token, yeah, let's avoid people who you know are bad for you, but for whatever reason.