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She told me she had an issue with a previous boyfriend where, from what I understand, he would jerk off to escort sites, sometimes while she was asleep beside him, and this seems to have coloured her opinion of the issue. Anyway, I'd be grateful for any advice or insight you can offer.

She told me she had an issue with a previous boyfriend where, from what I understand, he would jerk off to escort sites, sometimes while she was asleep beside him, and this seems to have coloured her opinion of the issue. Anyway, I'd be grateful for any advice or insight you can offer.

Hi, Dan. I have been in a conversation about finding the modern equivalent for the term Eskimo brothers. You know, something obviously, you know, not based on race or just a little bit more politically correct. Well, trying to figure out the next best thing with the AI and I'm not getting good responses. So I don't know. Let's see what we can come up with.

Hi, Dan. I have been in a conversation about finding the modern equivalent for the term Eskimo brothers. You know, something obviously, you know, not based on race or just a little bit more politically correct. Well, trying to figure out the next best thing with the AI and I'm not getting good responses. So I don't know. Let's see what we can come up with.

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony, well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Love Cast.

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony, well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Love Cast.

So I've known this top for about 10 months. We've been casually hooking up like usually at least once a week and still seeing other people. And we decided we want to have a threesome and I knew a bottom. who was interested. So the three of us started hanging out and we were nervous and then we started hooking up. And at first it was pretty great.

So I've known this top for about 10 months. We've been casually hooking up like usually at least once a week and still seeing other people. And we decided we want to have a threesome and I knew a bottom. who was interested. So the three of us started hanging out and we were nervous and then we started hooking up. And at first it was pretty great.

But then when it came to topping time, the other bottom was in a cage. And when I went to top, I kept getting soft because I was nervous. And so the one top ended up topping both of us. And for the most part, it was like me kissing one of them while they fucked. which wasn't great. But then towards the end, it ended up just being the top topping the other bottom while I just laid in the bed.

But then when it came to topping time, the other bottom was in a cage. And when I went to top, I kept getting soft because I was nervous. And so the one top ended up topping both of us. And for the most part, it was like me kissing one of them while they fucked. which wasn't great. But then towards the end, it ended up just being the top topping the other bottom while I just laid in the bed.

And I was like, oh, wow, this is going on for a long time. And damn, they're really into it. He's moaning in ways that I've never heard him moan before. And then... They went to switch positions after a period of time and I was not in the position still. And so I decided to excuse myself and I just went in the other room and sat on my phone and, you know, tried not to wallow in my low self-esteem.

And I was like, oh, wow, this is going on for a long time. And damn, they're really into it. He's moaning in ways that I've never heard him moan before. And then... They went to switch positions after a period of time and I was not in the position still. And so I decided to excuse myself and I just went in the other room and sat on my phone and, you know, tried not to wallow in my low self-esteem.

Then they like came out and I like tried to pretend like nothing was wrong. And I was like, that was fun. Let's do this again. Obviously it was pretty in my feelings, but like, I can't tell if this is like valid or Or if it's like a childish reaction to just not feeling, I don't know, not feeling like my ego satisfied. I didn't say anything during the sex. I didn't say it to include me.

Then they like came out and I like tried to pretend like nothing was wrong. And I was like, that was fun. Let's do this again. Obviously it was pretty in my feelings, but like, I can't tell if this is like valid or Or if it's like a childish reaction to just not feeling, I don't know, not feeling like my ego satisfied. I didn't say anything during the sex. I didn't say it to include me.

We didn't talk about it beforehand. I just thought it was kind of obvious that we'd like... you know, that like we'd be included and I'd be fucked. And I guess I'm wondering like, how do I like process these feelings of inadequacy? The other bottom kind of told me right after like, hey, sorry, I got carried away.

We didn't talk about it beforehand. I just thought it was kind of obvious that we'd like... you know, that like we'd be included and I'd be fucked. And I guess I'm wondering like, how do I like process these feelings of inadequacy? The other bottom kind of told me right after like, hey, sorry, I got carried away.

And then when me and the top tried to hook up again, I like couldn't get into the moment because I was just having flashbacks. And I was just thinking like, damn, he'd be having so much fun fucking the other person. Like, like my mojo is just gone. And I'm wondering how I get it back. Do I need to do a therapy workbook? How do I get over feeling like a kid with hurt feelings? I'm not sure.

And then when me and the top tried to hook up again, I like couldn't get into the moment because I was just having flashbacks. And I was just thinking like, damn, he'd be having so much fun fucking the other person. Like, like my mojo is just gone. And I'm wondering how I get it back. Do I need to do a therapy workbook? How do I get over feeling like a kid with hurt feelings? I'm not sure.

Hi, Dan and Nancy in the At Rescue. My partner and I have been in an evolving and open relationship for 20 years. He has a new partner now he sees often and they want to have regular sleepovers too. Our nine-year-old daughter is starting to ask where her dad is when he's not home in the mornings after staying with this special friend, though, and I'm struggling with how to handle this.

Hi, Dan and Nancy in the At Rescue. My partner and I have been in an evolving and open relationship for 20 years. He has a new partner now he sees often and they want to have regular sleepovers too. Our nine-year-old daughter is starting to ask where her dad is when he's not home in the mornings after staying with this special friend, though, and I'm struggling with how to handle this.