Vanessa Marin

Mm-hmm.

So does that trip lose some of its luster because you had to schedule it?

Is it like, oh, man, we had to schedule this trip?

If anything, I would venture that it feels more special because you've scheduled it, right?

It's like we know life is busy, but we are making sure to carve this time out for ourselves because this is important, right?

I think the same can be true when it comes to sex.

Where, yes, we can schedule sex in a very boring way.

If you're getting out your calendars and like, okay, I have Wednesday from 8 to 8.20 open.

If we're scheduling it the way we schedule a dentist appointment, of course it's going to feel boring, right?

But we can schedule it in a way that it's more about the respect that we're showing for each other and for our connection of I know that our life is busy.

It's full.

I know it's really easy for the day to just totally get away from us.

I want to make sure no matter what.

we have time to spend together, we have time to be together, that we are prioritizing each other.

So much of what we're talking about today is prioritizing each other, making each other feel important.

And I think scheduling is a way that we can do that.

The other funny thing to think about with scheduling, so let's go back to the beginning of your relationship with your wife.

So you guys are going on dates, right?

What are you doing?

You're scheduling those dates, right?