Vanessa Marin

It could be like a shoulder rub, a pat on the butt, squeeze, arm squeeze.

It's great.

Yeah, so it can be a fun question to ask each other, like what are your favorite places to be touched?

Because a lot of times we're actually touching each other in ways that our partner doesn't actually like.

So I already mentioned like the boob honk, you know, like that doesn't count.

That doesn't count in the touch.

So yeah, ask your partner, like, what are your favorite?

And you could tell your partner too, these are my favorite places of your body to touch.

That's a sweet, that's a very sweet.

Number one, slow down.

We talked about this one already.

Like we really want you to slow down, to tease us, to just like draw out that experience a bit more.

Number two.

Yeah.

Yeah, like not even genital touching, like caresses, caressing her thigh, massaging her back, giving her like an actual back massage, kissing all down her neck.

You know, so don't even go between her legs, like pay attention to the rest of her body.

That feels really exciting for a woman.

I would say like five to 10 minutes.

And I think most men are probably 20 to 30 seconds on that and then they want to move on to the other stuff.

But like I said earlier, a lot of women will say, that's my favorite part.