Vanessa Marin
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Men here don't stop and they think, let me do something different.
They get excited.
They get really excited.
They switch up the technique.
And women, we're all about consistency.
Once you find the thing that works, you need consistent stimulation to get us to reach orgasm.
But again, men get excited.
They want to switch up the technique, do something different.
That sends us back to square one.
We kind of have to start all over again.
So don't stop truly means don't stop.
It's one of the top three reasons couples split up.
Kids, sex, and money are the top three.
So it's huge.
And again, this is yet another reason why we have to stop thinking of sex as a purely physical act.
It's a very important part of a relationship.
Oh, all the time.
And I want to be careful with this too because a lot of women have gotten the message, if you don't give it to him, somebody else will.
And so a lot of women interpret that as, you know, I just have to give it up.
My needs, my pleasure don't matter.