Vanessa Marin

And I was thinking about your experience, you know, being an operative.

Like, I imagine you had to have a lot of conversations with people where you're trying to connect with them quickly and you're trying to show them that you care about them and trying to, like, gain their trust.

So were there any, I don't know, were there any tricks that you learned about, like, how do you make a connection with somebody quickly?

Compliments.

That was really the key.

Just getting right in there.

So what's the key to a good compliment?

Okay, no, that's great.

I think that's great.

That's really helpful.

So yeah, a compliment is definitely a great way to make it, you know, make it personal.

A lot of times, you know, a lot of men will just do like, you look nice.

Like, let's get a little bit more specific than that.

Can you call it something like, I love that, you know, the color of your shirt, the way that your, you know, your smile just lights up your whole face.

Make it just a little bit more specific than you look nice.

That can be a great way to just, you know, ease into that connection.

Touch her more often throughout the day.

Another one of my favorite sayings is foreplay all day.

Foreplay all day.

I like to think right after you've had sex, that is when foreplay for the next time starts.