Vanessa Van Edwards

Can you talk to me the difference between charisma and narcissism?

And how can you spot when someone is actually warm and caring and charismatic versus someone who uses the skills or the tools of charisma in their narcissistic approach towards manipulating, controlling and getting what they want in life?

And when a smart person who's narcissistic is gonna study everything and then start using it.

So how can you tell the difference?

The subtle cues, these are very subtle now.

Okay.

What are those cues?

So this might be someone who's very successful, someone who's accomplished a lot, potentially someone that seems very credible, someone that could be in a power position, owning a business or having influence online or something like that.

Extremely successful.

They could be successful.

They could seem credible, trustworthy, but might be super narcissistic underneath.

Man, that'd be interesting.

So they usually tell the truth and they do like this.

They blink more.

Interesting.

Oh my goodness.

Right?

You wouldn't feel competent.

Obviously.

And went an octave lower.