Vanessa Van Edwards
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Is this turning feet also?
Hands and feet are so, you know what's interesting?
I look at the hands and feet all the time.
I can't remember if I got this from you years ago.
It's like looking at the hands and seeing are they in the pocket, are they not in the pocket?
But go ahead, we'll get back to that.
We see wider.
Interesting.
How do you control someone else's cues?
So you can't control how they act towards you, but you can control how you react to it, how you interpret it, how you transition afterwards.
You know, in the vulnerability world, when you label the shame, when you speak about the shame, when you bring it to the light, it becomes less scary.
It doesn't stay stuck inside of you.
So even just acknowledging it is a helpful tool to process shame or, I guess, fear of social rejection.
Is that an eyelid?
Yes, it is.
Like a twitch or what?
Yes.
No, it makes sense to me because it's like, prove me.
Someone's doubting you.
The focus.