Vanessa Van Edwards

really important.

So let me tell you something really important.

Drama.

Create the drama.

It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

That's it.

That's big.

I am a big believer that the most important thing we can do is learn how to heal the different traumas or triggers from our past that get us in a reactive state when the world is happening.

And we become uptight, reactive.

We say things we don't want to say.

We regret the things we do.

We act out, whatever it might be.

healing the past memories, pain, frustrations, whatever you want to call it, I think is one of the most powerful things.

The second most powerful thing we can do is learn how to master the art of communication and learn how to be comfortable in our own skin and our own voice.

You know, How to Win Friends and Influence People was a book that was extremely powerful for so many people to learn how to socially connect.

And again, in life, we are either enrolling other people in us, in our vision, or we're unenrolling them in us, in our vision, based on how we communicate

how we connect with people, whether we're trustworthy or untrustworthy.

This book and your research and studies and content has been extremely powerful for so many people, including myself.

I learned a lot, and I feel like this is something I'm always studying, because I feel like you can never learn enough of understanding the science of people.

And so I, one, want people to learn how to continue to heal.