Vicky Reynal
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Is it sadness? And are there other ways in which you could be addressing those feelings rather than overspending? or maybe you overspend on your children and that's where you really go overboard and then you're filled with regret and um and guilt afterwards we'll be curious about that what is it about wanting to give to your children, where is that coming from?
Is it sadness? And are there other ways in which you could be addressing those feelings rather than overspending? or maybe you overspend on your children and that's where you really go overboard and then you're filled with regret and um and guilt afterwards we'll be curious about that what is it about wanting to give to your children, where is that coming from?
Is it coming from an experience maybe of having parents who weren't very generous with you or maybe couldn't be generous because they didn't have the means to? And so now you're trying to kind of vicariously live through them and give them all the experiences you didn't have, but is that what's best for them? And so I think curiosity is the key to all of this.
Is it coming from an experience maybe of having parents who weren't very generous with you or maybe couldn't be generous because they didn't have the means to? And so now you're trying to kind of vicariously live through them and give them all the experiences you didn't have, but is that what's best for them? And so I think curiosity is the key to all of this.
Is it coming from an experience maybe of having parents who weren't very generous with you or maybe couldn't be generous because they didn't have the means to? And so now you're trying to kind of vicariously live through them and give them all the experiences you didn't have, but is that what's best for them? And so I think curiosity is the key to all of this.
But because a lot of the money behaviors that I see trace back to quite painful emotional experiences, it's important to do that self-exploration without judgment. So saying things like, I'm bad with money, I'm terrible with money, that's not going to get you very far. a better approach is to investigate what that means, you know, that sense that you're bad with it.
But because a lot of the money behaviors that I see trace back to quite painful emotional experiences, it's important to do that self-exploration without judgment. So saying things like, I'm bad with money, I'm terrible with money, that's not going to get you very far. a better approach is to investigate what that means, you know, that sense that you're bad with it.
But because a lot of the money behaviors that I see trace back to quite painful emotional experiences, it's important to do that self-exploration without judgment. So saying things like, I'm bad with money, I'm terrible with money, that's not going to get you very far. a better approach is to investigate what that means, you know, that sense that you're bad with it.
Well, what is it that you wish you could be better at? Let's say it's investing. Well, why do you think you're not good with investing? Well, I don't understand enough about it. Well, could you learn more about it? Where could you find the information?
Well, what is it that you wish you could be better at? Let's say it's investing. Well, why do you think you're not good with investing? Well, I don't understand enough about it. Well, could you learn more about it? Where could you find the information?
Well, what is it that you wish you could be better at? Let's say it's investing. Well, why do you think you're not good with investing? Well, I don't understand enough about it. Well, could you learn more about it? Where could you find the information?
And you see that the moment you become, you have a kinder inner dialogue with yourself and a curious one, you can begin to find the answers to those questions.
And you see that the moment you become, you have a kinder inner dialogue with yourself and a curious one, you can begin to find the answers to those questions.
And you see that the moment you become, you have a kinder inner dialogue with yourself and a curious one, you can begin to find the answers to those questions.
Yes, I would say so.
Yes, I would say so.
Yes, I would say so.
Sometimes they don't know where it's going and that's kind of a... Again, that vagueness defense, they don't want to know where it's going. They don't want to open their statements and look at it because it would be uncomfortable to face the reality of what they're doing and the consequences of what they're doing.
Sometimes they don't know where it's going and that's kind of a... Again, that vagueness defense, they don't want to know where it's going. They don't want to open their statements and look at it because it would be uncomfortable to face the reality of what they're doing and the consequences of what they're doing.
Sometimes they don't know where it's going and that's kind of a... Again, that vagueness defense, they don't want to know where it's going. They don't want to open their statements and look at it because it would be uncomfortable to face the reality of what they're doing and the consequences of what they're doing.