Vince Vaughn

And maybe you think if you went back, but normally the person you were dating –

sometimes had their own lessons to learn.

And that's why you found each other.

And you can romanticize, like, what if we were each different people, but you weren't?

And hopefully you're both better people from the experience.

So I think you can not go back to that, but you can take the lessons and have something great now.

And I don't know that you would have been in that relationship with that exact person if you were a different person at that time.

There was probably something with her going on too that drew you guys together to teach each other that, whatever that experience was.

Make sense?

I love that.

But you can love that person different now.

And it's okay, Theo, because how would you have known that unless you're going through it?

It's like kids, sometimes you take something away from a kid and then you see him cry.

If you're just playing with toys, you go, oh, that doesn't feel good.

But I don't know that you can learn that without seeing the response of somebody else.

Do you know what I'm saying?

But that's the thing with nostalgia is you can get excited, I think,

about doing those things the right way now.

So you're nostalgic because you look back at those, you don't want to hurt anybody, you wish you could have played it out differently, but it played out the way it was supposed to for where you and that person was at.

And also it's our ego.