Vince Vaughn

We're not that powerful.

Like sometimes, I don't know if you've ever suffered from this, but I could really get caught up in trying to help friends.

And then I realized I use so much time and energy

And I'm really not that powerful.

I can't want them to change in the same way that I probably had people try to help me and I wasn't ready to change.

So you really can't get someone to a place that you think is right for them.

You can say it once.

You can encourage them.

You can give them grace and be there for them.

But ultimately, you can't really make that kind of a big shift with them.

And so when we find better ways of doing things, we want everyone to have that.

Oh yeah.

And I don't know if you felt this way, but I don't know.

Yeah, I had to go through a lot of it on my own.

You know, like I had to learn those lessons and figure it out when like the cavalry showed up and saved me.

Not that I didn't have good people in my life, but everyone does.

They have to go through those stages too.

Yeah, some really good ones.

And as you get older, don't you think more and more?

Yeah.