Vivian Tu

There's always a younger, hotter girl.

And that guy in that TikTok video who's making $400,000 a year, who's over 6'2", you know, whatever, and is 30 years old,

He's going to date the best that he can in that dating pool.

And eventually it won't be you anymore.

Wow.

You need to protect yourself.

And I see this all the time because I get DMs from people who are like, I was married to my husband for 20 years.

He just left me for some, you know, little young thing.

I don't have a dollar to my name.

I don't know the passwords to any of our accounts.

What do I do?

And that breaks my heart.

It breaks my heart because you have to rebuild.

You have to start from kind of scratch.

Ideally, you know, you have to get divorced.

You have to go through court, get money.

But like you got to start from scratch, which is why I always tell people have your own money, especially for women.

Sure, you can, you know, if you want to go after the richest guy, ask him to buy you everything under the sun, great.

You better still be working that job.

You better keep your own money.