Vivian Tu

I would always be like, if that girl has XYZ, I can't have it.

I need to do this.

It was just so unhealthy.

So I think it's more of knowing yourself, knowing your worth, and not being unnecessarily competitive.

I think there's a little healthy competition in everything, but

Don't let it be to the detriment of, you know, your mental health or like anything in your life.

And then, you know, just I think a third one is don't kill the golden goose.

um you have that on your shoes oh my god no don't have people kind of shoes i'm wearing no it says golden goose yeah it does so not sponsored by the golden goose shoe brand but um i would like to be uh the the old fable is that and i'm sure you've heard it right go ahead okay um a farmer's wife they have this goose and every single day this goose lays a golden egg and they're like

oh my gosh, like a little nugget of gold.

They're like, this is so weird.

All the other geese are doing this, but like this gold is amazing.

Like we now have this little pellet of gold.

I wish we had more.

And so every day they get a little egg of gold and they're like, well, it's not, you know, happening fast enough.

We should kill the goose.

And that way the inside of the goose will be entirely gold.

We'll be able to get it all at once and we'll sell it.

So they slaughter this goose and

And the inside of the goose is a regular goose body.

And there's not a single piece of gold.