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Waverly Deutsch

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

about my role at Forrester and my future at Forrester and I started to cry and George didn't know what to do and he wanted to end the conversation and I literally said to the man George I can cry and think at the same time

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

about my role at Forrester and my future at Forrester and I started to cry and George didn't know what to do and he wanted to end the conversation and I literally said to the man George I can cry and think at the same time

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

we can have this conversation yes i am having tears because my emotions are involved in this incredibly important logical conversation we are human beings we have emotions and we have logic and i can think and cry at the same time and for me that was an extremely liberating moment Because in the past, I had always tried to get through the thinking situation and then go off and burst into tears.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

we can have this conversation yes i am having tears because my emotions are involved in this incredibly important logical conversation we are human beings we have emotions and we have logic and i can think and cry at the same time and for me that was an extremely liberating moment Because in the past, I had always tried to get through the thinking situation and then go off and burst into tears.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

That had happened to me when I found out at Tufts that I had passed my exams, my PhD exams, and I was going to be awarded my PhD degree. The way that the head of the department presented it to me was hateful. He said, we expected much more of you than this. And if we could give you a pass minus, we would give you a pass minus.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

That had happened to me when I found out at Tufts that I had passed my exams, my PhD exams, and I was going to be awarded my PhD degree. The way that the head of the department presented it to me was hateful. He said, we expected much more of you than this. And if we could give you a pass minus, we would give you a pass minus.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

And had been taking care of a partner who was suffering from chronic fatigue. And I had been working a job at Stanley Kaplan and I had been studying for my exams and I was emotionally exhausted. And I said to him, did I pass? And he said, yes. And I said, thank you. And I ran downstairs into the bathroom and burst into tears.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

And had been taking care of a partner who was suffering from chronic fatigue. And I had been working a job at Stanley Kaplan and I had been studying for my exams and I was emotionally exhausted. And I said to him, did I pass? And he said, yes. And I said, thank you. And I ran downstairs into the bathroom and burst into tears.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

To be able to have the confrontation with George and to cry and to have logic and to have a successful outcome was an amazing moment for me in learning that both things can happen at the same time and both can come into play at the same time. And I think a lot of people... Especially women, our emotions tend to be a little bit more at the surface than a lot of men experience.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

To be able to have the confrontation with George and to cry and to have logic and to have a successful outcome was an amazing moment for me in learning that both things can happen at the same time and both can come into play at the same time. And I think a lot of people... Especially women, our emotions tend to be a little bit more at the surface than a lot of men experience.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

Although, believe me, I've known a lot of men have sat with me and cried. This gift of being able to say you can have your emotions and we can have this important logic-driven discussion at the same time was a really critical moment for me in my evolution as a professional and as a human being, to tell you the truth.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

Although, believe me, I've known a lot of men have sat with me and cried. This gift of being able to say you can have your emotions and we can have this important logic-driven discussion at the same time was a really critical moment for me in my evolution as a professional and as a human being, to tell you the truth.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

I think that just to comment on what you said, I think one of the biggest myths that we've created in the world of business is, hey, it's not personal. It's just business. Oh, yes. Businesses are made of people and people are human and they have emotion. And I also think we're learning that a lot of our emotional sense is tapping into some

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

I think that just to comment on what you said, I think one of the biggest myths that we've created in the world of business is, hey, it's not personal. It's just business. Oh, yes. Businesses are made of people and people are human and they have emotion. And I also think we're learning that a lot of our emotional sense is tapping into some

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

subconscious knowledge that is actually leading us in a better direction than the purely analytical. So no entrepreneur has enough data to make a purely analytical decision. You have to go with your gut. The one time that I accepted a job based on the logic of it

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

subconscious knowledge that is actually leading us in a better direction than the purely analytical. So no entrepreneur has enough data to make a purely analytical decision. You have to go with your gut. The one time that I accepted a job based on the logic of it

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

The title, the career path, the money, the benefits, the moment in my life where I needed to establish myself in Chicago because I had moved from Boston. But there's this little red flag in my emotions saying... I don't know about these guys. There's this little tickle in my gut that I don't know about these guys. The one time I went with Head, it was a disaster. I lasted six months.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

The title, the career path, the money, the benefits, the moment in my life where I needed to establish myself in Chicago because I had moved from Boston. But there's this little red flag in my emotions saying... I don't know about these guys. There's this little tickle in my gut that I don't know about these guys. The one time I went with Head, it was a disaster. I lasted six months.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

I parted ways with the company. My intuition about the guys was right. Ultimately, the VCs that backed the founder of the company had to remove him as CEO and claw back some of their money and allow the business model to change without him. And the one time that I actually made a career decision with my head rather than my heart, it was a disaster. And I think I learned a lot from that.

Chief Change Officer
#223 Love, Logic, and a Reality Check: Waverly Deutsch on Changing for the Better โ€“ Part One

I parted ways with the company. My intuition about the guys was right. Ultimately, the VCs that backed the founder of the company had to remove him as CEO and claw back some of their money and allow the business model to change without him. And the one time that I actually made a career decision with my head rather than my heart, it was a disaster. And I think I learned a lot from that.