Yuna

I'm 29 years old.

I'm a female looking to date men.

And my biggest question about dating is basically like, how do you know what to look for?

Like, I feel like when I was younger, I had this like list of things that I thought I wanted my partner to have.

And they were kind of superficial.

Like I really want them to be into the gym and stuff.

And as time has gone on, I've just realized like none of the things I thought were important are.

And the people that I've liked have not been the people that I thought I'd like.

So I guess, like, how do you know what to look for?

Like, what are the most important things?

And how can you figure those things out early on in dating instead of, like, spending a lot of time getting to know someone and not really finding the people that you want, I guess?