Zerk

I didn't know what turn to take.

I didn't know where I was going.

But I said, okay, that's all right.

I'm going to figure it out.

With what I have, I'm going to figure it out.

And my journey will look different than yours, of course, 100%, as your friend's journey will look different than yours.

But the one thing I can tell you is that if you do not at least try, if you do not at least give yourself enough respect to be like, okay, I'm lost, I admit it, what can I do?

Like, where can I go?

Who can I just like ask and DM and be like, yo, bro, I think you're doing something really cool.

I want to learn how to do this.

Yo, do you know anybody who is a, you know, bricklayer?

I want to get into that.

Hey, do you know anybody who, you know, has like a successful relationship?

I'd love to talk to them so I don't keep getting my heart broken.

Use the world around you.

Put it out that you want to change and do not tell people that you're looking to change.

Act on it.

If you do need something to confide in, this is what has also helped me is get a journal.

Get a journal, get any kind of journal.

It doesn't need to be a specific one.