Zerky

You can be a jester, like that meme where he's like in front of the princess.

You can be that too.

That's fine.

But if your needs are not being met, you will begin to build resentment towards other people in your life and you might start to withdraw.

And it happens slowly.

I'm sure you've noticed that maybe you were on the receiving end of this, where you were in a relationship with somebody and all of a sudden they just, they're switching little things.

It's always small things, things that they would say, maybe compliments that they would make, initiation they would take.

It begins to fade and it's not like an immediate, they don't want to talk to you.

It's kind of like a

When given a choice of something else, they will begin to wonder about that choice a little bit more.

In times where it used to be, we're gonna hang out together, we have this ritual together that we're gonna drive home from school, they're gonna decide, you know what, I wanna go with this person and that person and listen.

Nothing wrong with that.

You need a little bit of change and sometimes you'll be in a honeymoon phase and then it's time to take a break and kind of get back into reality.

But you will begin to kind of feel it

If they are pulling back and it's always important in my opinion to acknowledge it and bring it up.

Yo, things don't feel the same.

And why is that?

What is causing this?

Is it something that I'm doing?

Maybe I'm doing something wrong and I would want to know.