Zerky

Are we not spending enough time with somebody else?

Is it that we don't have enough alone time?

And that's actually making us feel super, super claustrophobic because that's a very real thing.

Not a lot of people talk about.

You want to spend every moment with your partner.

You want to spend every moment with your friends.

Bro, you need alone time.

You need a moment to chill on the couch.

You need a moment to go to the beach.

You need a moment to drive in your car and listen to music.

You need that.

Not everything needs to be spent with somebody else.

But instead what happens is a lot of us think that a relationship and the time we spend is very scarce.

We don't think of it as abundance.

We think of it as this person will leave me eventually so I need to harness as much of their energy, as much of their time, as much of their soul as possible.

It's a bad way to look at it.

It's a way I understand because I used to think that way and I thought it's only a matter of time until this is cooked, right?

But it only goes so far.

Because then you can very easily lose yourself in somebody else.

And you can very easily feel like the only way to gain that back is by completely cutting them off, is by becoming a recluse and thinking that it's entirely their fault.