Zerky

It's all about figuring out what do you need.

Maybe you do need that much communication and that much time.

That's great.

Or maybe you need it in the beginning and then later you kind of find your footing and you say, all right, we need a little bit of distance between us and that's normal.

People are supposed to make your life easier and better and supplement it.

They're not supposed to drain you.

And the minute that you start being drained, you have to look at two things.

You have to look at, is it the fault of the person?

Are they just a draining individual to be around?

Because some people are vampires in this world and they will just suck all of it out of you.

And the second one, are you allowing yourself to be drained?

Is it something that you're just giving up?

Are you just knowingly seeing that you are being used for your time, for your emotional support, for your wisdom that they never use somehow and the same problem keeps repeating?

And are you going to put a stop to it?

Because maybe they're taking this and they're even cognizant of it.

They know that they're kind of reaching here.

And a simple conversation, a simple confrontation could make both of you be like, yo, we like each other, we want this to work.

This is kind of ridiculous though.

We need to have our own time.

We need to figure out what our own schedule is going to look like, man.