Zerky

This is a common thing that I think, you know, we all experience at least once.

We think we are competent enough to give everything a shot and give everybody a chance.

But

I want you to know that you learn more from dedicating your time to one thing than you will ever, ever learn from just kind of giving something a half chance or not really committing to it.

I think what's good if you're, for example, going down a fitness journey right now, right?

I'm doing that openly.

It's good to give things chances, but don't just like commit with your toe in the water a little bit.

Go all in.

For a little bit of time, go all in, okay?

And see how you feel.

If it feels good, if it feels like you're supposed to be doing it, stick with it.

But if it doesn't, then it's okay, you can drop it.

I used to feel like very shameful about things not working out.

I mean, that's what kept me from trying.

Like yoga kept me from traveling because I was like, well, you know, what if I don't like it?

But you won't know until you try.

It's like just how it goes.

And the more that you convince yourself you're not worthy enough to try, the less you're going to know what you actually like.

You got to wear your mistakes on your sleeve.

It's the same thing as like getting a jacket and deciding, you know what, I want to put some Air Force patches on it.