Zerky
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Because people can see through the BS sometimes.
There's a difference between actually being genuine, being like, yo, man, I just can't hang out right now.
I'm going to be honest.
And creating some kind of excuse.
Oh, it's a social battery.
It's not a social battery.
You just don't want to.
And be honest that you don't want to.
Hey, man, I just want to chill tonight.
Not, oh, it's because I'm dealing with this other thing and that's making... Like, no, you're not.
You don't want to.
Maybe it's because of the low social battery.
But just say you don't want to.
You'd be appalled to some of the excuses people will make and blame it on boundaries.
I'm trying to set better boundaries.
No, you're just not being honest.