When You Walk Through the Door and Feel Absolutely Nothing Your daughter is talking. You’re nodding. You’re even smiling. But inside, there’s nothing. No warmth. No lift. No sense of “this is what I’ve been working for.” Just a kind of internal grey. In this episode of The Truth About Alcohol, we explore one of the most uncomfortable moments fathers rarely admit out loud — feeling emotionally flat in front of the people they love most. Not angry. Not resentful. Just switched off. If you’ve ever sat at the dinner table and wondered, “Why can’t I feel this properly?” — this conversation will feel uncomfortably familiar. This isn’t about being a bad dad. It isn’t about loving your family less. It’s about nervous-system depletion, role switching, and the hidden pressure men carry from work into home life. You’ll hear: • Why emotional flatness after work is often collapse, not indifference • How shame quietly enters when you think you “should” feel more • Why alcohol seems to create warmth — but is actually masking depletion • The invisible identity shift from performance to presence • How transition, not willpower, is the real missing piece Most men don’t drink because they want to party. They drink because they don’t know how to land. If this 4–6 pm switch keeps repeating, don’t try to fix it with willpower. Build a transition instead. The After-Work Reset is a short, structured downshift designed specifically for this moment. Start here. #1000DaysSoberPodcast, #LeeDavy, #STRIVE, #TheTruthAboutAlcohol, #AfterWorkReset, #AlcoholAwareness, #SoberCurious, #StopDrinking, #MindfulFatherhood, #WorkToHomeTransition, #EmotionalRegulation, #HighFunctioning, #DadLife, #NervousSystem, #AlcoholFree, #MenAndEmotions

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