今天我们继续和心理咨询师宏桑老师（新浪微博@宏桑hit），来聊一聊亲密关系与原生家庭之间的关系。如何看待人们把问题归因于原生家庭？原生家庭又是怎么影响一个人和一段关系的？感情中的困惑与痛苦，逃避型讨好型的人格，甚至男生的“处女”情结，归根结底是因为什么？ 阿德勒曾说：“幸运的人，一生都被童年治愈；不幸的人，一生都在治愈童年。”在大多数中国式家庭里，孩子是父母的面子，是他们逃避婚姻问题的借口，甚至是他们人生失败的宣泄口……这些原生家庭未解开的结，再次被投射到了新的亲密关系里。 人生大多数痛苦来自于过高的期望与现实之间的落差，与其总是横向比较，不如学会向下看。在喧嚣的年代，尝试去做减法，寻找你内心真正所热爱，你的人生或许会更快乐。希望听完这期节目的你，能正视自身困惑与痛苦的源头，有新的动力重新去爱、去闯荡。
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