A Gay and A NonGay

James 5

07 Aug 2019

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Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5? --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe r...

Mae Martin

31 Jul 2019

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Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live! -- Get tickets fo...

Metro

24 Jul 2019

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Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly --- Get tickets for our ...

Jamie Dornan and Macklemore

17 Jul 2019

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Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike? --- Get tickets for our BIG Edin...

A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? 🍕

10 Jul 2019

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James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn't th...

Pizza Pride 🍕🏳️‍🌈

26 Jun 2019

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James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay! --- Get tickets for our ...

Phubbing

19 Jun 2019

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Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we're hanging out with mates? Dan i...

James' Big Weekend

13 Jun 2019

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The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues... 😞 -- Listen to our BBC R...

A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin

05 Jun 2019

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Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A N...

NO SPOILERS

29 May 2019

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Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS. Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com...

Guacamole

22 May 2019

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James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special. -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 te...

Shawn Mendes

15 May 2019

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Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at gaynongay....

Gay Relationships Are Hard

08 May 2019

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James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer supp...

Hugs

01 May 2019

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Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete? -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hac...

A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary

24 Apr 2019

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We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host...

Consent

17 Apr 2019

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Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whet...

Dorchester

10 Apr 2019

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We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London. --- List...

Burnout

03 Apr 2019

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Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC So...

Eau d'amour

27 Mar 2019

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Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into...  Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or ...

Kebab Awards

19 Mar 2019

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There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as ...

0121

13 Mar 2019

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What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with...

Exclusively Gay

06 Mar 2019

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How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new...

Destroyers

27 Feb 2019

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Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers. -- We hope you...

A Technicality

20 Feb 2019

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Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean? --- We hop...

Timothée Champagne

13 Feb 2019

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James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s r...

NonGay Night Out

06 Feb 2019

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Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it? We hope you join us at our big show - June 8t...

Erased

30 Jan 2019

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James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and dire...

Fabulous

23 Jan 2019

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Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic. Mug someone off for New Year at our s...

Tales from Miami

16 Jan 2019

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James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story. For support and informa...

Dan's Pants

09 Jan 2019

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Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon. This episode is supported by...

TwentyBiTeen

02 Jan 2019

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#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the ap...

Best of 2018

27 Dec 2018

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Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes...

Santa

19 Dec 2018

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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes f...

Fairytale of New York

12 Dec 2018

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You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-...

STI

05 Dec 2018

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Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just 'podcast...

World Aids Day

01 Dec 2018

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A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the...

World Aids Day 2018

01 Dec 2018

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A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the...

Wrestling

28 Nov 2018

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It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE...

Deep Feelings

21 Nov 2018

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How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating. Podca...

Isolation

14 Nov 2018

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James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing...

PC 4 PC

07 Nov 2018

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We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn't even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed - A Gay & A NonGay is an independent p...

👻 Ghosting 👻

31 Oct 2018

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James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a te...

Exclusive

24 Oct 2018

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Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide. James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat L...

First Boyfriend

17 Oct 2018

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James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic. A Gay & A No...

Paula

10 Oct 2018

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It's getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts ...

Bert & Ernie

03 Oct 2018

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Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne's new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there's a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Er...

Pride & Prejudice

26 Sep 2018

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It's the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled? A Gay & A NonGay ...

Come Together

19 Sep 2018

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Happy 101st! It's business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding.  A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he...

100

13 Sep 2018

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It's episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It's a long way from 'Hello' and NonHat wearers. Listen to our centenary episode recorded live...

Banana 🍌

05 Sep 2018

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It's a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode! Rule No. 1: Don't sexualise a banana 🍌 Come see us at ...

Gay on the Train

29 Aug 2018

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Dan gets chatted up on the train and won't stop bringing up YMCA while James can't stop laughing at Dan's recent foray into the world of lip-sync. Co...

Gay for Pay

22 Aug 2018

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It’s official. Dan is ‘gay for pay’. Plus the boys are back from sell out shows at the Edinburgh Fringe festival where they discussed NonGay Jac...

Number 10

15 Aug 2018

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We discuss James' recent DJ set at... 10 Downing Street. What should you do when politicians with questionable histories invite you round for tea? Rea...

Taxi 4 James

08 Aug 2018

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Nothing makes James laugh harder than Dan's teenage band, and Dan has finally caught up with Queer Eye. --- Come see us at our next live show at the ...

Birds

01 Aug 2018

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Dan wants water, and knows an alarming amount about birds. Say hey to him if you see him at Brighton Pride this weekend, but James won't be there. Plu...

Freaky Friday

25 Jul 2018

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Dan has “finished The Velvet Rage” and is now the expert on gay men. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate  A Gay...

Mincing

18 Jul 2018

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Dan's back from celebrating his first ever Pride in Seattle! The boys discuss the anti-trans protesters at #PrideInLondon, and "what kind of fresh hel...

Save Dan

11 Jul 2018

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Is James 'hysterical'? Is Dan being bullied? #SaveDan. Plus James is done with f*ckboys and Dan's had a tweet about ice cubes. Please support our...

BREEDER

04 Jul 2018

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Dan has 'the gist' of Pride, and James needs to remember this weekend is not all about husband hunting. Plus a case of vocabulary when the nongay gets...

Russia

27 Jun 2018

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Would your family and friends be proud of you being LGBTQ+, even if it put themselves in danger? Should a gay person lie about their sexuality if they...

Pronouns

20 Jun 2018

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James and Dan explore whether to talk about pronouns in daily life, and Dan is inspired by the fab five to dish out some advice. Please support our sp...

Section 28 🤢

13 Jun 2018

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We forgot to wish Section 28 a happy birthday, oops! And why is everyone going on about Russia? Ugh. Please support our special little friendship at ...

Thirsty

06 Jun 2018

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James & Dan go to a festival, but James is too thirsty for all this NonGay chatter. --- This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-win...

Shorts

30 May 2018

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Dan's love of shorts comes back to bite him (IN THE BUM) Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate  A Gay & A NonGay is a...

The Bum Sex Files

23 May 2018

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James has had 'hot sex with a hot guy' and wants to tell Dan all about it. Meanwhile, Dan has questions regarding a recent Amazon purchase. Please sup...

Officially Funny - our British Podcast Award winning entry

19 May 2018

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We just won the Bronze Award for BEST COMEDY at the British Podcast Awards and consider us weeping and screaming all at once! Bottoms, Santa, Avril an...

Meringue

16 May 2018

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James wants to talk about gay dads leading Dan to somehow accidentally volunteer to become a co-parent with James. Please support our special little f...

Berlin

09 May 2018

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Everyone gets a bit giddy when a trip to Berlin is mentioned. The least morning commute appropriate episode ever. Please support our special little fr...

Gay Bar

02 May 2018

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Dan finds himself uncomfortable on a night out, while James stresses about becoming a home owner. Please support our special little friendship at ga...

🐓 Blocker

25 Apr 2018

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It's finally time for James to apologise to Dan after he receives some listener feedback. Plus has Dan been deliberately 'cockblocking' James? Please ...

Slow Cooker

18 Apr 2018

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Say what, we've been nominated for Best Comedy Podcast at The British Podcast Awards. Yay! James is "shook" and Dan has a problem with it. Plus the bo...

Korn or Porn

11 Apr 2018

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Dan has prepared a special ROCK game for James to 'enjoy.' James makes a phone call and gets an unexpected answer. Please support our special little f...

Bi Now, Bi Later

04 Apr 2018

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We’re chatting bisexuality, James has his first Patreon Boyfriend plus Dan’s explanation of inverted hatred in the metal community is alarmingly f...

A Gay, A NonGay & A Trans with Juno Dawson

28 Mar 2018

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"Transphobia is the forest fire that needs urgent attention “ To celebrate and commemorate International Transgender Day of Visibility we’ve recor...

Ugly Cry 🎡

21 Mar 2018

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James & Dan both break their promises for lent. Yep. It’s sp*** and meltdowns all in one place after James is triggered by the incredible new movie ...

Top and Tail

14 Mar 2018

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Dan and James plan their night sharing a bed together, while James is jealous that Dan's more popular on instagram than him. Please support our specia...

Lowkey Offended

07 Mar 2018

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A Gay and A Non Hat Wearer. ICYMI the boys reveal their sexuality. Why does James feel different after 2 months of taking PrEP? And Natalie Imbruglia ...

You Mug!

28 Feb 2018

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The UK's LGBTQ+ homelessness crisis is top of mind after James hosts Student Pride and Dan's asked our voiceover lady to record some special 'NonGay' ...

D before Date?

21 Feb 2018

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Dan has a novel take on what 'bumble' might be for and James suggests a new approach to dating, inspired by Love, Actually. Please support our special...

Mummy and Daddy

14 Feb 2018

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Happy Valentines Day - a day when James wants to call Dan 'Daddy.' Plus A Gay & A NonGay brings you an unexpected biology lesson about cows. Soz. Plea...

Orgy

07 Feb 2018

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Do nongays have as many orgies as gays? James is back on the dating apps and shows Dan how Grindr works. Plus the results from James' survey are in - ...

Fifty Shades Of Narcissism

31 Jan 2018

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Dan thinks he looks like the HOTTEST MAN IN HOLLYWOOD. James does not agree. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate  A...

PREPisode

23 Jan 2018

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James & Dan chat safe sex . What is PREP? Can it protect you from HIV and does it make you... erm, fart? Find out more about HIV and the need for bett...

School

17 Jan 2018

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Dan wants to ‘smash James’s poppadoms’ with his masculinity and James drags up some of Dan’s old social posts to see if he’s worthy of their...

James 3, The Finale

10 Jan 2018

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James comes face to face with his gym crush. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Em...

That Boy is a Bottom

03 Jan 2018

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James tests Dan on our sassy new jingles which leads to more BOTTOM ADMIN chat. Plus our listener Jacobi's sent us a special cookery book... New Year ...

A Teeny Weeny Little New Year Thank You

27 Dec 2017

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We just wanted to say thanks 💕 See you in 2018 for more meltdowns, wokeness, live shows and the return of James 3 Get bonus content on Patreon, wit...

Wonderful Christmastime

20 Dec 2017

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How difficult is it being gay at Christmas? Is it James’ new year resolution to find a boyfriend? Plus we invite Santa into the studio for his first...

Insecure

13 Dec 2017

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Dan is insecure. Or is he very secure? Discuss. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson)....

Cuddles

06 Dec 2017

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James thought it might be funny to do a 'would you rather' but, finds out from Dan that it's not. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from Jame...

Irish Goodbyes

29 Nov 2017

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Turns out when you put things on the internet, people can hear them, as James found out this week from his ex. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podc...

Rebound

22 Nov 2017

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Dan's in a mood and James is on the rebound. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Em...

James 3, Part 2

15 Nov 2017

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James is back obsessing about a certain other James... and don't you dare phone Dan unless it's an emergency. Plus... AUSTRALIA, we love you and are s...

Relationship Update

08 Nov 2017

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Oh dear. James has a relationship update Don't call it a 'meltdown' A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan ...

Bring Your Own...

01 Nov 2017

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James has a BOYFRIEND... but his BF has a 'thing' for Dan?? Meanwhile Dan wants to invite James to an exciting new cookery class but it's bring your o...

#metoo

25 Oct 2017

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#metoo A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch ...

Bowie

18 Oct 2017

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Plans are afoot for the next live show, but there's just one problem - James can't pronounce 'David Bowie' A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast ...

On Religion

11 Oct 2017

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James tackles our first complaint while getting a masterclass in the branches of religion from Dan.  A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from...

Nudes

04 Oct 2017

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James reveals all about his relationship with 'Dan 3' and is already thinking about the wedding. Meanwhile the boys discuss unsolicited dick pics, sel...

LIVE @ London Podcast Festival

27 Sep 2017

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Yay! It’s A Gay & A NonGay LIVE at the London Podcast Festival. We’ve had so many lovely tweets asking for longer episodes so we hope this satisfi...