A Grown Up's Gap Year
Happyish Holidays: Festive Season Boundaries & What Feels Like Home
08 Dec 2025
Design a festive season that actually fits: clear, kind boundaries and small rituals that help you feel at home when “utterly joyful” feels like a stretch. In this short episode of A Grown Up’s Gap Year – The Podcast, we explore Happyish Holidays: how to set festive season boundaries that are clear and kind to you, and how to re-find what feels like home when traditions and family shapes have shifted. You’ll hear a candid story about home changing over time, three reflection questions to locate your version of home today, and a quick TRY THIS to create one small ritual just for you (a morning swim, a solo coffee, or a guilt-free no). We touch lightly on chosen family and low-stress gatherings, but the focus is practical boundaries and small, doable steps that protect your energy. Oh and we link to a fabulous episode on the topic with Glennon Doyle's "We Can Do Hard Things", and a meditation on "Home Away From Home" by author Pico Iyer.Episode Resources & Links:Your SPACE PrescriptionFree Weekly NewsletterDear Blokes DownloadableSetting Boundaries That Stick - checklist"Happyish Holidays" from the podcast "We Can Do Hard Things" with Glennon Doyle"Where Is Home" TED talk with author Pico IyerKonfekt magazineEir Women Trimmed📚 Get your copy of A Grown Up’s Gap Year the book, from Amazon, moniquevantulder.com, bookshops and libraries, subscribe to the podcast, and take the first step toward your own A Grown Up’s Gap Year. Monique's LinkedIn Monique's Instagram
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