Find Me a Rock: The Futility of Leading for the Unwilling

In groups where few take ownership, even good leaders get stuck playing a losing game. This episode explores the “find me a rock” dynamic—where complaints are abundant but direction is absent. Whether in lodge or life, the message is clear: stop chasing unclear expectations, and start leading with clarity, courage, and purpose.🔑 Key TakeawaysPassive group members often sabotage direction by offering vague complaints.Without self-leadership, even structured systems like Freemasonry flounder.Leadership starts when someone—anyone—takes the first meaningful action.💬 Featured Quotes“Most men in groups are just along for the ride.”  — [00:00:16]“They’ll say, ‘find me a rock’—and whatever rock you bring, it’s the wrong one.”  — [00:00:38]“Your best move is not to play that game. It’s not winnable.”  — [00:01:10]“There’s real work to do. But if you’re just complaining, you’re not helping.”  — [00:01:38]🔗 Explore Related EpisodesEvery Complaint Is a Tool: Start with the One You’re Holding How frustration can signal your next area of growth or action.The Work of a Master Mason: Governing the Self First Explores personal discipline and leadership from the inside out.Sometimes the Hidden Isn’t Hidden—It’s Just Poorly Explained On clarity, misunderstanding, and the power of better explanations. Creators & Guests Brian Mattocks - Host Click here to view the episode transcript.

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