69. Why Mums Are Always the Backup Plan (And How to Change It) [Part 1]

Ever tried to have an uninterrupted shower, only to have Fight Club break out in your house the second you close the door? Meanwhile, your partner somehow gets their coffee, their phone time, their 35 minute toilet morning routine - completely untouched?If you’ve ever thought:Why am I the only one absorbing the chaos?Why does everyone else’s needs seem to matter more than mine?Why does it feel like I have to do everything while being “grateful” for the occasional break?🚨 THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU 🚨We’re jumping into:The real reason neurodivergent mums are expected to be endlessly flexible (while others get protected time).Why the mental load isn’t just about chores - it’s about who carries the unpredictable stress of a household.How this imbalance fuels burnout, resentment, and exhaustion (and why so many of us have just stopped asking for change).The masking, guilt, and gendered expectations that keep us stuck.✨ PLUS: I’ve created A Kit for Recognising & Shifting the Mental Load to help you start shifting the mental load - without feeling like it’s just one more thing on your plate. Get it here. RESOURCES MENTIONED:The Second Shift StudyADHD Pre-Diagnosis WorkbookNot sure where to start? Start here: https://adhdmums.com.au/start-here Blog post on this topicJOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It...

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