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Is it ADHD or Burnout? - ADHD or Life? A couple's perspective
19 Sep 2025
Send us a textDonna scored an extra hour in bed (jealous), Adam flew solo on another podcast, and we both tried to be “productive adults.” This week we’re asking: Is it ADHD or burnout? Are we hitting a brick wall because of executive dysfunction, overwhelm, or just old-fashioned tiredness? And do “neuro-normal” folks burn out too—or is Donna inventing new words again?Shoutout time:Fran from Melancholy Coaching: melancholymentor.comListen to Adam’s guest appearance: https://youtu.be/SQW48B_Jopc?si=9P7O3ReyQWZRLJTyInside the episode:Burnout vs ADHD: signs, symptoms, and where they overlapExecutive dysfunction or burnout? What’s the difference and why it mattersThe burnout cycle: all-guns-blazing → hyperfocus → crash → guilt → repeatHow long can burnout last? Spoiler: longer than we’d likeMasking and mental load: the energy tax nobody seesADHD tiredness vs neurotypical tiredness: sprinting until you collapse60-second self checkup: a quick personal audit for burnoutSleep truths: “stealing sleep,” bad habits, and Adam getting busted for creative mathsWork, life, or both? Is burnout just workplace-related or bigger than that?Relationship dynamics: communication, compassion, and making room for recoveryPractical coping strategies: boundaries, rest, body doubling, Pomodoro, and giving yourself permission to slow downIdentity check: is burnout mistaken for laziness? Is Donna Superwoman… or just getting on with it?Side note: has Adam lost his Scottish accent, or are our ears broken?5-Minute Moans:Pass the parcel energy at home and some very controversial TV viewing habits.Listener stories:Burnout-themed tales from the community—raw, relatable, and reassuring.Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/JScijeLRx4cListen for real-life ADHD insights, relationship honesty, and practical tips to break the burnout loop—without the shame spiral.Follow us and say hi:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhdorlifepodTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdorlifepodYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ADHDorLifepodTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/adhdorlifepodFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adhdrelationshipsunfilteredWebsite: https://www.adhdorlife.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/46i0iGiwmgvFrlOzoW2SnS#ADHD #ADHDBurnout #ADHDLife #ExecutiveDysfunction #Hyperfocus #Masking #MentalLoad #TimeBlindness #Pomodoro #BodyDoubling #SelfCare #BurnoutRecovery #Neurodiversity #ADHDinRelationships #ADHDParenting #SleepHygiene #WorkLifeBalance #RoutineReset #RelationshipTalk #PodcastUKTune in every week for more conversations and revelations! Send your good, bad and ugly stories to [email protected]. Like and Subscribe to see our faces here: http://www.youtube.com/@ADHDorLifepodFollow us on Tik Tok for extra snippits and more: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdorlifepodFollow us on Instagram for up to date info: https://www.instagram.com/adhdorlifepod/Join us on X to explore conversations:https://x.com/adhdorlifepod
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