67. Facing Failure after Infidelity: Shifting the Narrative
03 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In "Facing Failure after Infidelity: Shifting the Narrative," Join me Luke Shillings as I explore th...
66. Farewell 2023: A Year of Recovery, Resilience, and Reflection
27 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to a Special Year-End Episode of 'After the Affair' Podcast Join me, Luke Shillings, as I em...
65. Choice or Obligation: Should I stay or leave after the affair?
20 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"Choice or Obligation: Should I Stay or Leave After the Affair?" explores the heart-wrenching decisi...
64. Benefits of Healing from Infidelity
13 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We begin by exploring the importance of recognizing what's within our control and what isn't. This c...
63. What if it was me? Self-Reflection in the Wake of Betrayal
06 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join me Luke Shillings in this thought-provoking episode of 'After the Affair', titled "What If It W...
62. Overcoming Thought Addiction after Betrayal
29 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this enlightening episode of "After the Affair," Join me Luke Shillings as I talk about 'Thought ...
61. Once a Cheater: Possibly a Keeper?
22 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?" Join me Luke Shillings as I challenge this oversimplified notion...
60. Gaslighting an Affair? Take a look in the Mirror
15 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join me in this enlightening episode of "After the Affair, where I delve into the often-overlooked p...
59. Trust After Betrayal: Is There Hope?
08 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Explore the complex journey of rebuilding trust after the pain of infidelity in this insightful epis...
58. Why We Stray: Does Attachment Theory Explain the Unthinkable
01 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'After the Affair,' Join me Luke Shillings as I delve into the profound connectio...
After the Affair Podcast - What to expect.
01 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the 'After the Affair' podcast trailer, your essential introduction to the gripping world...
57. Between Culture & Infidelity - A Journey of Identity, Love and Self Discovery with Yasmin Majid
25 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of "After the Affair," Join me Luke Shillings as I sit down with guest Yasmin Majid ...
56. ’Humping’ After the Affair - Navigating the Emotional Terrain of Recovery
18 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this eye-opening episode of 'After the Affair,' I explore the challenging middle ground of the he...
55. The Invisible Weight - Societal Pressures after Betrayal
11 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'After the Affair,' I take a look at the societal pressures that shape how we cop...
54. Divorce after Betrayal - Expert Perspectives with Charlotte Tweed
04 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of "After the Affair," host Luke Shillings interviews Charlotte Tweed, a family divo...
53. Betrayed and Doomed - Spot the Signs and Know When to Walk
27 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this eye-opening episode of 'After the Affair,' join me Luke Shillings, as I identify the key ele...
52. Ignoring Red Flags - The Guilt of Not Acting Sooner
20 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Are you carrying the heavy burden of guilt after discovering your partner's affair, wondering why yo...
51. Parenting Through Infidelity with Ben Pugh
13 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Joining us today is my guest, Ben Pugh, who during the course of conversations shares his background...
50. Dating After the Affair
06 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this 50th episode of "After the Affair," I take a look at the complexities of reentering the dati...
49. A Choice No One Talks About: Are you Volunteering to be a Victim?
30 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode of 'After the Affair,' I uncover the often unspoken but pervasive issue that many...
48. Motivating Change: Faust Ruggiero’s Guide for Professional Self-Help
23 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of "After the Affair," host I am joined by guest Faust Ruggiero to discuss the impor...
47. Understanding Cheaters
16 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I try to get a better understanding of those who cheat and how it affects the heali...
46. From Struggle to Triumph - Heather O’Connor’s Tale of Reinvention after Divorce
09 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of After the Affair, join me Luke Shillings as I welcome divorce and custody attorne...
45. Affair Partners - The bad smell that just won’t leave
02 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Stuck with the stench of your ex's lover? In this controversial episode of 'After the Affair,' I div...
44. Redefining Masculinity with Jennifer Jehl
26 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of After the Affair, I'm joined by Jennifer Jehl. Jenn helps men create next-level c...
43. Solitude - Working alone, Healing together
19 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode, I look into the intricate ways people process emotions, influenced by their ...
42. Pivot after Infidelity with Furkhan Dandia
12 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with Furkhan Dandia. Furkhan is a therapist, author...
41. The Aftermath - How to deal with Sudden Change
05 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In the latest episode of "The After the Affair", join me as I navigate the treacherous waters of sud...
40. Looking Inside with Jen Frey
28 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When we see things that aren't right in our relationships and have no idea how to fix them ... the e...
39. Unveiling EmpathMe - The Dark Side of Self-Empathy
21 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In the aftermath of an affair, the path to healing is often paved with self-reflection and inner exp...
38. Breakthrough Conversations with Diana Maria Indries
14 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this captivating podcast episode, join me for a breakthrough conversation with the brilliant crea...
37. Identity - Who Am I Now?
07 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Explore the intricate layers of personal identity in this captivating episode of "Identity - Who am ...
36. Couples Retreat - With Tamika Carlton
31 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join me in a fascinating discussion with Tamika Carlton about what Data Tells Us About Couples Retre...
35. Reject Compromise - Rethinking Resolution in Relationships
23 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Reject Compromise: Rethinking Resolution in Relationships challenges conventional wisdom around conf...
34. Resentment Reboot - Trust yourself after Betrayal
17 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Resentment and bitterness are common feelings after you have been betrayed. They are easy to justify...
33. Forgiveness with Nicole Harvick - The Quantum Energy Healer
10 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join me in this episode as I explore the lesser-known world of Quantum Energy Healing with Forgivene...
32. Through the Lens of Negativity
03 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When you have witnessed behaviour in your partner that you don't like, how regularly do you use that...
31. The Role of Self-Awareness after Infidelity
26 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Taking responsibility is a message we hear more and more, but where do we start? In this episode,...
30. The Tech Trap - How Infidelity is being facilitated by Technology
19 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Join me whilst I delve into the dark side of technology and its impact on infidelity. With the rise ...
29. The Truth behind Unconditional Love
12 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Feeling love towards others is a choice that we often overlook. Choosing negative thoughts and emoti...
28. Breaking the Cycle
06 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I explore the common cycles of pain and mistrust that often accompany healing from ...
27. Redefining Self Worth - A candid conversation with David Redbord
29 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I sit down with David Redbord, a self-worth expert, to discuss how to redefine self...
26. Secrets of an Infidelity Coach
22 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode, I delve into the secrets of being an infidelity coach and how I help couples...
25. The Power of Limerence
15 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
'Limerence' to infidelity, is like 'Furlough' was to Covid. A word that most people had never heard ...
24. Jealousy Unmasked
08 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
'Jealousy Unmasked' explores the topic of jealousy in relationships (Including post infidelity). I d...
23. The Danger of People Pleasing
01 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If you have ever found yourself saying 'yes', when you meant 'no' .... then this episode is a must l...
22. The Blame Shame Game
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Healing from an affair is complicated. One often overlooked part of the healing process is understan...
21. Why People Cheat
15 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered why people choose to be unfaithful. What makes betrayal so difficult to resist? Learn ...
20. How to handle any problem.
08 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Learn how I handle any problem, and how you can do the same. To find out more, grab a drink and pop ...
19. Confidence After Infidelity
01 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Infidelity can have a major and lasting effect on confidence. Do you understand the difference betwe...
18. Road to Forgiveness
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The road to forgiveness is a challenging journey, but it is one well worth taking. There are many ...
17. It’s all Lies
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Lies form a very real part of the world we live in. From the innocent white lies we tell our childre...
16. Best way to Heal
11 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There are lots of ways people choose or recommend as the way to heal from betrayal but that raises a...
15.The Motivational Triad
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Happy New Year! Let's make 2023 the turning point in your recovery. Today's episode is all about ...
14. Put it to Work
21 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Come on, admit it. We are all guilty for consuming a great piece of advice, reading and inspirationa...
13. Know Your Boundaries
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What boundaries do you have in your relationships? Have you ever intentionally set a boundary? What ...
12. The Rulebook
07 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Following on from last weeks episode I explore the list of rules that we have for our partners. How ...
11. Rose Tinted Glassed or Not
02 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We all see the world through a different lens. Sometimes it's easy to use the analogy of Rose-Tinted...
10. When Things Seemed Fine
23 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
For episode 10, we're doing something a little different. Whatever it is that you are going thr...
9. Rebuild Trust
16 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Such a common question after infidelity, how do I rebuild trust? How can I ever trust again? I coul...
8. Choosing to Stay
09 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
REGISTER HERE -- www.lifecoachluke.com/holidays Click above to join us on Sunday 13th November at 12...
7. Don’t Mention the ’F’ Word
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Feelings! It's all about feelings. Feelings/emotions are the fuel for everything we do. In this...
6. Unexpected Guilt
26 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When betrayal happens, it's common to assume that guilt is only experienced on the side of the unfai...
5. When Words Ignite
19 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you are trying to heal from infidelity? But no matter how hard you try, every discussion is like...
4. The Truth
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Truth, True and Fact ... are these the same things? In today's episode I'll explore my thoughts arou...
3. Misjudging Others
07 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I'm discussing the common ways we misinterpret each other, in particular within rela...
2. Letting Go
03 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I am exploring the concept of letting go of the outcome. This is an important part o...
1. Consider This
02 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Join me in this first episode to discover a little about me, but more importantly an exploration int...