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Amala Ekpunobi

The Wizard Liz: A Cautionary Tale On Modern Relationships

28 May 2026

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Chapter 1: What advice did Wizard Liz give about modern relationships?

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She built a massive platform giving women advice on how to avoid bad relationships, single motherhood, broke men, manipulation. And now after millions of followers and millions of views, she's a single mother because of a bad relationship with a broke man that was full of manipulation, it seems. Let's talk about the wizard Liz. Yeah, you better. Yeah, you better.

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Guys, before we get into today's video, please like and subscribe. Today we're gonna be talking about the wizard Liz.

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Chapter 2: How did Wizard Liz become a single mother?

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You sort of got a synopsis about what we're gonna be discussing in the intro for today's video. I see this girl all over the internet right now. She's going super viral because of the situation she finds herself in. A situation of single motherhood to a man who seems to be less than ideal. And the reason everybody's talking about her is because she built a massive platform.

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And I mean, millions of followers talking to women about how she really wasn't going to end up in a situation like this and giving them advice on how to leave these situations, how to avoid these situations, advice on discernment and manifestation. You name it, she'd choke about it. Now we're getting videos like this on TikTok where women are asking, how could this happen to the wizard Liz?

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Wizard Liz built her platform off of telling women how to not end up in this exact situation that she's in? I'm asking this question in good faith as someone who wasn't familiar with her prior to sh**ting the fan. How did this happen? And I'm not victim blaming. I'm genuinely, sincerely confused.

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As someone who presented herself as keenly aware of all the methods men could use to ruin your life, how they often moonlight as dementors, has she ever explained how she ended up with this man?

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okay let's go ahead and pause there now i was not super familiar with wizard liz before all of this i had seen some of her content and some of her advice which we're about to get into but i can tell you i'm not surprised that she has ended up in this situation and that is not to victim blame as people are saying these days it's just to say that these situations can happen to

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All of us, we are all open to experiencing the pitfalls of relationships and it did happen to her. Now we're gonna ask ourselves why? And I think in order to answer that question, we have to get a baseline for who Wizard Liz is, go into some of the foundation of her content online, this advice that she was giving to women in sharing her life and in sharing her mindset.

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So let's watch a few videos.

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There's literally billions of people in this world and you think this one douchebag is your only option? Please. Comes off so desperate. Like, how desperate are you to be like, hey, listen, I know I'm not even worthy of an explanation, but I still want you. Have you guys ever noticed if you are going after a girl, if you are going constantly after a guy, he is not interested in you?

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But the moment you switch in your head and you're like, you know what, I don't want him anymore. They all come back. Why do you think that is?

Chapter 3: What led to Wizard Liz's downfall in her relationship?

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Walk away. You will find much better than him, okay? He is the bare minimum. He's under the bare minimum. He's in hell. This guy's in hell, okay? You can create heaven for yourself. Why are you in hell with him? You don't belong there. Baby, you're too good. If someone has to insult you to bring you down, you're already above them. You're already above them. Why are you trying to bring you down?

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Okay, the advice in here, have standards for yourself. Don't put up with abuse. Absolutely. Is there also a ton of ego coupled in this video? Totally. And I'm not saying not to victim blame Liz. It's just to say, if we're asking the question, how did she end up in this situation? We should probably look for answers.

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And then we should look at ourselves and see if we can find answers for ourselves on how we could end up in these situations. Let's watch one more video just to lay the groundwork on who Liz was online.

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But how many men would date an unattractive woman? Exactly. They wouldn't. They just simply wouldn't, okay? Because they have that standard. If you're unattractive, I don't want to date you. But once a woman has a standard and is like, if you're a broke guy and with broke guys, I don't mean men that are poor. I mean men that don't know how to create abundance. And that's a big, big issue.

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See, for example, for me, a broke man, how I classify it, is like my dad. My dad refused to work. He doesn't want to work. He doesn't want to figure out how to work. He made my mom work her whole life, and she was taking care of him, okay? He didn't respect himself and he didn't respect my mother. It was just not in balance at all.

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And my mom had to be hyper masculine to make up for the lack of masculine energy in the house, right? Now, when you have that, a person that doesn't know how to be abundant, that's a broke guy, okay? It doesn't matter how much money he makes, as long as he's trying, that's an abundant man.

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Okay, now let's pause there. We're getting more information here. First of all, a trauma past or what she views to be a trauma past with her father, who she describes as a broke man who didn't have money. She says in other videos that he stole money from the family, from her mother, that he was never really a provider.

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So based off of her experience as a child, and so many of us do this, I know I've done this. You want the antithesis of the negative things that you've experienced and you want to amp up the positive things that you experienced. And while that's all good and fine, sometimes it can create blinders for us where somebody can present to us what we think to be the antithesis of our trauma.

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And we lean so hard into that because we want it so bad that we don't see all the other red flags that are happening around us. So for someone like Liz who experienced a broke father, who stole money from the family, who was never a provider, a man could show up paying for a ton of things, traveling to see her, buying her flowers and gifts.

Chapter 4: What red flags did Liz ignore in her relationship with Landon?

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And within four months of this relationship with this guy who she believes to be perfect, she gets pregnant. She also introduces this man to her audience. So we have some videos to go off of so that we can meet Landon and see what we can see.

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It's not a good partnership if the person is going to choose someone else over you. That defeats the whole point. Forgiveness is a big thing. So if you have ever had a trust issue come up, you've got to learn how to forgive and work through that. Otherwise, that'll just turn into crippling insecurity that you suffer with. Depends what the trust issue was.

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If the person is like texting other people. Yeah, well, there's different like degrees of security for sure.

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Okay, so there's a video of their young, it seems, budding relationship. Do we already see some issues? And of course, hindsight is 20-20. But in watching this video, Landon says, if you have a trust issue with your partner, this is something that you need to work through. You need to forgive. Otherwise, you will deal with crippling insecurity.

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And she retorts back, well, it depends on what the trust issue is or what the person has done. So already a massive incongruence in values as it pertains to relationship, but she is wearing what a Van Cleef necklace and diamond earrings and a diamond ring. And these two are set to be together. They are engaged. Do we see where things could maybe go wrong here? We're going to watch another video.

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What would you do if your husband left you or whatever? I'm like, I mean, I would just continue with my life, you know?

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and watch Landon during this video.

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I still have my own life. I have my own finances. I don't need to be here. I want to be here. Because at the end of the day, a lot can go wrong in a relationship. That is just the reality of things. People fall out of love. People fall in love with other people. All these things can happen. So make sure that you always have yourself.

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No matter what, like... Okay, so she just gave her view on marriage and said, you know, if the relationship is not serving you, you can leave that relationship. Now, some people do not necessarily believe that about marriage. Others believe that marriages go through highs and lows.

Chapter 5: How did Liz's childhood influence her relationship choices?

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Yeah, we argue. Yeah, he's very jealous. He's controlling. But those are things that a lot of people deal with in their relationships, you know?

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Okay, so there's a lot of, again, like she states, the head fighting with the heart here. He is perfect, she says. Yes, he is jealous. Yes, he is controlling. But a lot of people deal with that in their relationships. How is somebody perfect, but also jealous and controlling?

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Did we, for the sake of our own wants and material needs, not address things that were clear red flags because other wants and needs were being met? She talks about travel and the money and the gifts and the paying for all of these things.

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And maybe that created blinders for her, for the, you know, jealousy and the controlling attitude and all of these other issues that were popping up because she had no a need or a want that was created in her childhood with a broke man that was now being fulfilled by Landon, who had all these other issues that were going unchecked. So when people say somebody is too good to be true,

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listen to, listen to yourself, listen to your intuition. Think about why you might think that if you feel like something's off, don't make excuses for something being off. Investigate, investigate, investigate guys.

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And for the love of all that is good, wait more than four months, more than four months before you get pregnant with somebody's baby, no matter how good they make you feel and how wonderful the whole situation is because we all have

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blinders that's something to be learned in all of this now liz has taken instagram to speak about her current situation with landa and we're gonna watch some clips of that someone asked how did he have the money to appear like he had everything when i met him

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I don't know he told me he had sold shares of his company and that's why he had a lot of money and then he started buying me like all these things and this guy was really good to me like really really a good guy for a whole year you know and that's the guy I agreed to marry so I don't know who this person is. I don't understand.

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I have never seen someone that can fake their personality like this, that can fake their whole lifestyle like this. I don't.

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