An Older Gay Guy Show
Episodes
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 6
25 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sweeps continues with another episode with Sgt. Ron, who tells us some tales from his time at Eglin Air Force Base. This is Part 6 of the series and w...
Your Personal Trainer - Part 2
21 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In Part 2 of the ongoing 'Your Personal Trainer' series, I review your 'homework' from Part 1 and then we talk intensely about one food we need to eli...
INTERVIEW - Artie O'Daly - Bad Boy series - Part 1
14 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sweeps Period has begun! In this first episode, I have an awesome interview with a very busy Hollywood actor/writer/producer/director/editor. His name...
Colonoscopy Fun
24 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I thought I'd give you a story of how my day went for my 2nd colonoscopy, the first I've had since 2009. If you wish to support An Older Gay Guy Sh...
Embracing Change
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
After a short-hiatus, I return with an episode about making some much needed changes.
Life-Enhancing Habits - Conclusion
08 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is the final installment of my 'Life-Enhancing Habits' series. This episode covers the remaining 7 suggestions to help you live a longer ...
How Do We Hold The Senior Gay Community Together ?
24 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
As we slowly start putting society back together as we all get vaccinated for Covid-19, the Senior Gay Community is something we all need to think abo...
Things To Do And Say To Make Yourself Old
17 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We all are getting older, and maybe we are becoming our parents in our thoughts and habits. Are we as Gay Seniors just tired of the world of younger p...
Your Personal Trainer - Part 1
11 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am starting a new series that I'm calling Your Personal Trainer. I often hear from guys that have basic workout and nutrition questions. I k...
INTERVIEW - Matt Mercurio - Part 2 - 1970's-2000's Gay Clubbing and Music
27 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
My former client Matt Mercurio returns for the conclusion of his 2-Part Series. In this episode we talk a lot about the music of the 1970's-2000's and...
Life Enhancing Habits - Part 1
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is part 1 of a 2-part series on 10 Habits that can help give you a heathy life as you age. In this first part, I give an overview, some necessary...
INTERVIEW - Gian Carlo Durland - Ripples of Water
12 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this Interview episode, I am joined by Actor/Writer/Producer Gian Carlo Durland, Independent Filmmaker. Gian Carlo currently has two film projects ...
INTERVIEW - Matt Mercurio - A Client Of Joey's From 25 Years Ago Speaks Out - Part 1
05 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is Part 1 of a fun conversation that I had with Matt Mercurio, an ex-client and best friend of mine from 25 years ago. Matt was one of the first ...
Energy Builds Energy
28 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is an episode about Procrastination and Lack of Motivation. Often these things can be directly tied to lack of physical or mental energy to take ...
Mistakes Are NOT Mistakes
19 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes when we get older, especially if we are single and alone, we ruminate on past embarrassing situations or errors that we have made. I wanted ...
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Conclusion
26 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In the conclusion of our 5-Part Series on Sgt. Ron's Gay Military Life Stories, he concludes with some intriguing tales of how far the U.S. Military u...
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 4
09 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In Part 4 of our 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues his amazing story-telling and discusses his time in Turkey. This is a funny and fascinating tale, g...
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 3
06 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In Part 3 of a 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues to tell us his tales of gay life in the United States Air Force. In this episode, Sgt. Ron tells us...
INTERVIEW - Ste7en Foster - 'The Last Alias'
02 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
LGBTQ author Ste7en (yes, the 7 is on purpose) joins me to discuss his brand-new memoir The Last Alias, a book discussing his very successful career a...
The Aches and Pains of Aging
29 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This is a somewhat humorous look at the aging process and ways that we can mitigate the craziness that we go through.
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 2
19 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In part 2 of this five-part series, Sgt. Ron tells us about his first experiences in gay life, and the interesting men that he met in his early days...
Our Elusive Search for Happiness
10 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
For today's episode, I have re-edited some recording that I did 4 years ago about how to focus your own search for Happiness. I hope you enjoy it.
Senior Life Curse: Loneliness
01 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
One of the dangers of getting old is the possibility of losing friends and family and isolating yourself in desperation to try to avoid pain. This can...
5 Rules to Get a Second Date
24 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
So once you have secured that first date with someone, does it often not go as planned? Did you like the guy but then you didn't receive a call/text f...
I See Dead People - Part 2 - How to Embalm a Body
14 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In Part 2 of my 'I See Dead People' series, I thought it would be a good idea to tell you about what exactly happens when a body is embalmed. As we...
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 1
02 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Continuing Sweeps Period, this episode is Part-One of a Five-Part Series from Sgt. Ron, who we previously heard on the popular Gay Prison Guard Series...
INTERVIEW - Randy Slovacek - Broadway Dancer, Singer, Actor
30 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Sweeps Period 2020 starts off with a humorous and heart-felt conversation with Randy Slovacek about his extensive Broadway and Touring Company perfor...
Nichols' Story
19 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
I've had a really tough few days. This is a tribute episode. The show concludes with my rendition of On My Own from Les Miserables in memory of my...
Senior Life Ahead
12 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Lessons Learned. Regrets. Happiness. Future Plans. All as I am now 62 years old, the Soft Senior age. If you like An Older Gay Guy Show and want ...
Let's Write A Novel - Part 2
25 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this second episode I remind you of what you should have done between these two episodes, and then move on to development of Minor Characters and F...
INTERVIEW with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report
30 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This is an awesome INTERVIEW show with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report Blog and Podcast. The Randy Report was recently named one of the Top 13 LGB...
Let's Write A Novel - Part 1
22 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever dreamed of writing the Great American (or wherever) Novel? Have you ever read a book and was disappointed and said 'Hey I could have wri...
Is Cheating The Price We Have To Pay To Have A Relationship?
04 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
So many gay men have to deal with their boyfriend/partner/husband cheating on them. Sometimes it takes years to find out, and by then you might have g...
INTERVIEW - Jason T. Gaffney - Filmmaker 'Analysis Paralysis'
14 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this first Interview of Season 5, I talk to Hollywood LGBTQ Independent Filmmaker, Jason T. Gaffney. Jason talks about the current film that he has...
An Insider's Look Into The Large Weight Loss Companies
29 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this final episode of the decade, I tell you about my experience in working at one of the Large Weight Loss Companies for a year. I talk about what...
Dating During the Holidays
13 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Do the Holidays get you down? Is it because you haven't had much luck in finding a Boyfriend/Husband? Well, the Holidays can be an awesome time for n...
Officer Ron - Gay Prison Guard - Part 3
31 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
The conclusion of the 3-part interview series with Officer Ron, the Gay Prison Guard. In this episode, Officer Ron tells us a few tantalizing stories ...
INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 2
03 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sweeps Period continues with Part Two of my fascinating interview with Officer Ron Odion, a 20 year veteran of the New Mexico State Penitentiary. Offi...
I See Dead People - Part 1
29 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Part One of a Two-Part Series on my experiences as a Funeral Director and Embalmer. This is an insider's look into what happens when a person dies. ...
INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 1
10 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sweeps Period 2019 begins with a fascinating Interview Show with Officer Ron Odion, a retired, Gay Prison Guard who worked in a State Penitentiary in ...
Can't I Just Be Happy, Is That So Much To Ask ?!
19 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We all want to be happy. Yet for many, happiness seems to be elusive. Should we change our locations? Change our jobs? Search out better partners? In...
Gay Health 4 - Night Owls and Insomnia
19 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Are you a Night Owl? Do you sleep unusual hours, tossing and turning? I discuss my own experience with being a 'Night Person', and how I am striving t...
My Worst Date EVER !
09 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
I have a recorded version of my LIVE Valentine's Day Night Show, and I'm chopping it up to use for various upcoming episodes. In this episode: I te...
Vacationing Alone
05 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Many of us older gay guys are single, and as we age, we might lose contact with friends through relocation, illness, death, arguments; a host of reas...
Regrets and Lessons
31 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
I found some news today that made me think about regrets and lessons in life, and I want to share some thoughts with you. Please....don't miss my LIV...
Being The Third Wheel
26 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Don't you hate it when one of your closest friends, maybe even your BEST friend, gets into a relationship with a guy and suddenly you don't hear from ...
Why Are Young Gay Guys Such Dickwads ?
13 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
The first episode of Season 4 comes via an email I received from a very nice gentleman in Australia. It has prompted a discussion on why young gay guy...
INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part Two
25 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This year's Sweeps Period concludes with the 2nd Part of my conversation with Kris Venezia about what is new in the areas of cosmetic work available ...
Self-Doubt vs. Confidence - Impostor Syndrome
16 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
At the request of a listener from British Columbia, Canada regarding his self-doubt as he takes a new position running a sports team, we look at two s...
Getting Outside Yourself
22 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This serious episode is the second half of my series on Depression that started with the episode 'Depression: Emotional Eating'. Today I tell you abou...
INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part One
15 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
In today's Sweeps Period episode, I think everyone will find this fascinating. Kris Venezia (from 'The Almost Transition' episode) returns to discuss ...
INTERVIEW - The Leather Community with Jay Menick
08 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
An Interview Show with Mr. Providence Eagle 2017, Jay Menick. Jay gives us insight into the Leather Community, it's clubs, contests and history. If...
Coming Out Later In Life
29 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
An exploration of the issues and obstacles that gay men face when coming out when older. A Vintage TV Trivia question is asked at the start of the...
Relationship Honesty
14 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This is kind of an addendum to several of previous episodes: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships / Gay Dating / Cruising / Bromance with an Ex / etc. I...
Monogamy vs. Open Relationships - Part 1
25 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
This is the 1st of 2 parts on a discussion about whether Monogamy is right for your relationship, or if you both prefer an Open Relationship. A liste...
Can You Have A Bromance With An Ex ?
25 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Can gay men have a friendship/bromance with an ex easier than a straight couple? Are you friends with any of your exes? I examine an article by author...
Nothing In The Dark
08 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
WARNING: If you are SENSITIVE regarding the topic of DEATH, or have had a particular trauma with the death of a loved one, PLEASE SKIP THIS EPISODE. H...
Aging Angst
28 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Two unbelievable things happened to me this week, and unfortunately, they ending up being related. Sit back and listen to a couple of stories that hav...
Why Can't I Find A Boyfriend??
19 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Tired of endless dating and not finding the right one? Or, tired of not even getting any dates to see if they are the right one? I give you my part of...
What About Bob ?
10 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
I recently re-connected with my friend from high school, Bob. I reminisce about our teenage years and my 'seduction room'.
Gay Bears And Other Labels
31 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
A bit controversial, I discuss the various labels used in the gay community and consider whether some are welcome and good, or are all of them restric...
My Funny Phobia
29 Aug 2017
Contributed by Lukas
I have the most embarrassing phobia that seems to attack me whenever the Universe is looking for a laugh. I hope you enjoy my story about my strange p...
Our Identity
21 Jul 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Not sure if this was a good idea, but I purposely messed myself up a bit so I could have some fun. This won't be a regular thing, fear not. But I hope...
♬Cause Breakin' Up is Hard To Do ♬ - Part Two
22 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
My first 'buzzed' episode, as my husband Paco and I celebrated the first day of Summer out on our deck with some wine. LOL In this episode I discuss ...
♬Cause Breakin' Up is Hard To Do ♬ - Part One
08 Jun 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Part One of a 3-part series about Gay Relationships and Break-Ups. In this first episode, I begin to tell you about my personal relationship experienc...
INTERVIEW - The Almost Transition
30 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
An Interview Show featuring one of my closest friends who has had an extraordinary life. Kris shares interesting details of his early days as he prepa...
Gay Health 3- The Fear of Colonoscopies
23 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
A discussion about the importance of screening for colorectal cancer. If you are approaching age 50, it is imperative you have this important procedur...
Gay Health 2- Neuropathy
11 Mar 2017
Contributed by Lukas
A discussion about Neuropathy, a common problem that develops with Diabetes, Advanced HIV, Lyme Disease, Shingles and many other ailments. While there...
Fear and Anxiety
07 Feb 2017
Contributed by Lukas
As we age, it is not uncommon to have growing fear and anxiety about the future. In many cases, these emotions are not only related to health and fina...
No One Alone
22 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
An important message about the Thanksgiving and Christmas Holidays, as well as all the religious celebrations around the world, inclusive of ALL relig...
The Funeral Surprise
16 Nov 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm going to tell you one of the most unusual things that happened while I worked as a Funeral Director/Embalmer. I think you'll find this story...
Self-Esteem As We Age
07 Oct 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt that you are less attractive, less muscular than others? Have you felt that at your age all your chances at happiness have evaporat...
Who Will Take Care of Us ??
13 Sep 2016
Contributed by Lukas
As we age, we all have concern about who will care for us when we are old. This is a discussion about some of the unknown details that might shock you...
Expanding Horizons
15 Aug 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Age is just a number, right? So maybe there are some dreams that we used to have when we were 'younger' that we kind of pushed back for someday in th...
Pet Family
25 Jul 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Us gays LOVE our pets! In this episode I tell you a tale of what I consider to be the best thing I have done in my life. I hope it inspires you, I hop...
Gay Pride 1973
09 Jun 2016
Contributed by Lukas
My history with Gay Pride Parades started with the 3rd Pride Parade that Boston ever had, back in 1973. This year is my return to those celebrations a...
I Must Forgive
17 May 2016
Contributed by Lukas
I share a story that I didn't think I would ever talk tell on a podcast. But having just had a birthday, I decided that I needed to tell this tale, an...
What Happened To Gay Bars ??
15 Apr 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Gay Bars are closing all over the country. Why? Is it the Internet? Drug use? Our older gay community is losing its structure. Let's discuss what Gay ...
Gay Dating
16 Mar 2016
Contributed by Lukas
Looking for a boyfriend but can't seem to get past a first date? Why doesn't it work out? We look at some situations and suggestions on how to attra...