Two heart surgeons looked at the same heart and gave me opposite advice. One said plan surgery. The other said wait.At 42, in the best shape of my life, I was diagnosed with mitral valve prolapse with severe regurgitation. And suddenly I had to answer a question I never expected to face:👉 Do I operate now — or can I safely wait?This is Part 2 of my heart story.In this episode, I break down exactly how I chose my heart surgeon in London, what criteria I used, and what I learned navigating the NHS, private healthcare, and multiple surgical opinions.If you’ve been diagnosed with mitral valve prolapse, mitral regurgitation, or told you “might need surgery,” this episode is for you. In this episode:• What severe mitral valve prolapse actually means• Why two top surgeons gave completely opposite advice• The difference between repair vs replacement• Why “minimally invasive” doesn’t always mean what you think• The exact criteria I used to shortlist surgeons• How many surgeries is “enough”?• Why bedside manner mattered less to me than technical mastery• The red and green flags I noticed• What finally made my decision clearI’m not a doctor. This is not medical advice. This is my lived experience navigating high-stakes medical decisions as someone who researches leaders for a living.I’m a headhunter. I assess excellence for a living. Choosing a heart surgeon felt like the most important search of my life. And what I discovered about expertise, confidence, ego, craft, and decision-making surprised me.Chapters:00:00 Two surgeons. Opposite advice.00:35 What mitral valve prolapse with severe regurgitation means01:02 How Serious Is Mitral Valve Prolapse?01:39 Surgery or Live With It?02:19 NHS vs Private: Getting Seen Faster02:46 Palpitations, Anxiety & A&E04:14 The Cardiologist Determines Your Surgeon04:50 Using ChatGPT to Shortlist Specialists06:19 How to Choose A Surgeon 09:44 Bedside Manner vs Technical Mastery11:07 When One Name Keeps Coming Up11:26 Surgeon #1: Plan the Surgery12:25 Surgeon #2: You Can Wait13:23 50/50 — What Do I Do?13:51 The Third Opinion Changed Everything15:08 Why I Chose HimKey topics:Mitral valve prolapseSevere mitral regurgitationMitral valve repair vs replacementMinimally invasive heart surgeryWhen to operate on mitral valveHeart surgery at 40Choosing a cardiac surgeonNHS vs private healthcare UKFollow Maria Hvorostovsky:IG: https://www.instagram.com/anatomyofaleader/IG: https://www.instagram.com/mariahvorostovsky/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariahvo/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mariahvorostovsky/Website: https://www.anatomyofaleader.com/Artwork and video by https://www.londonbeautyphotographer.com/If this helped you, subscribe and share it with someone navigating a diagnosis.These conversations make it less lonely.My name is Maria Hvorostovsky.This is Anatomy of a Leader.

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