Andy Wells

Do You Regret the Past & Worry About the Future? (Rumination)

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundan...

Self-Love is an Ideal You Work Towards (Kill Your Inner Loser)

11 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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The 61yo Farmer Who Didn't Give a Fuck About Limiting Beliefs (Cliff Young)

10 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I Broke All the Rules: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qjYK4dx4Js🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https...

Play the Numbers Game (Talk to More Women)

09 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coaching program: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 1-time coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person): https://kyil-extra.com/calls🤝 The A...

We're Grateful for This Girl (Kill Your Inner Loser)

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Your Problems Aren't the Problem (Kill Your Inner Loser)

07 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundan...

48 Laws of Power (I Don't Recommend this Book!)

06 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Other books we recommend instead:Extreme Ownership by Jocko WillinkHow I Found Freedom in an Unfree World by Harry Browne🤝 The Abundance Collective...

GO TAKE ACTION RIGHT NOW (Kill Your Inner Loser)

05 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

You Don't Have to Look Perfect to Have Lots of Sex!

04 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Elite Social Life: Coaching Made Him a SOCIAL BUTTERFLY!

03 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Watch this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/R3wkOIWtYmc🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil...

You Don’t Have to be all that Interesting to Get Laid

02 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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Approaching Women - It's Ok to be a Bit Awkward (Kill Your Inner Loser)

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The original tweet: https://twitter.com/dantethepanda/status/1807795764988698836🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/...

He Lost His Virginity & Got a Girlfriend! (Kill Your Inner Loser)

30 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Watch the full video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/a6n0JUbEpag🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://ky...

My FOURTH 365 Day Project! [Day 1]

29 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Watch this video on Youtube so you can see the photos/etc I'm referring to: https://youtu.be/kvFMoFQg0Eg🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our afford...

Getting Girls to Write 'I Am Beautiful' on Their Bodies

22 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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What I've Been up to Lately (Life Update) (Kill Your Inner Loser)

20 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm super grateful to all of you.Coaching program: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching communit...

How to Stop Being NEEDY & be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT. (+ my own past neediness w you guys)

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Yeah, I've been very needy with you in a lot of different ways.Timestamps:00:00 Intro01:01 Why you might be needy11:34 How I (Andy) am needy with...

Is Your Obsession with 'Balance' Ruining Your Happiness

29 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Are you living your life "correctly"? (Kill Your Inner Loser)

22 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Most People's Opinions are Useless (Including this One)

15 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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What to Do if You Have RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS (It's ok to dislike your partner sometimes)

08 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

'Happy Wife, Happy Life' Doesn't Resonate with Me. Here's Why: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/14489930🤝 The Abundance Colle...

I Focus on the INPUT, more than the Output (Kill Your Inner Loser)

01 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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GIVING VALUE in Dating & Business is LIFECHANGING (For YOU)

29 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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You Won't Always Like the Other Person (Sex/Relationships)

26 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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You Can Get to My Level in 1/10th the Time!

25 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Aka how to kick my butt when it comes to your goals.The video course I mentioned (Play to Win): https://playtowinmindset.com🤝 The Abundance Collect...

If I Can Do It, You Sure as Hell Can Too. (Kill Your Inner Loser)

23 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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Why I'm not afraid of Competition (Kill Your Inner Loser)

21 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Giving truly is receiving.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆...

Doubts are Normal. They're Like an Old Friend. (Kill Your Inner Loser)

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Doubts have come with me my entire life; and that's a beautiful thing.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month...

Giving is receiving (Kill Your Inner Loser)

10 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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How to be a Great Listener (& Improve Your Empathy)

08 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

$200 coaching calls: https://kyil-extra.com/calls🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com...

Help! I'm obsessed with a girl! (Kill Your Inner Loser)

03 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Aka "I've been imagining my entire life with this girl I barely know. What should I do?"🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable c...

Every stressful thought comes from expectations (Kill Your Inner Loser)

27 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Thinking "They/it/I should be different" is the root of all suffering.Books mentioned: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/My video cours...

What happens if you literally say: "I want to have sex with you"

20 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Short answer: Yes. Tune in for HOW you can say it.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.co...

Are you moving the goalposts? (Self-reflection, mindfulness & gratitude)

13 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Grab the course here (pay whatever you can afford - even if that's literally just $1): https://playtowinmindset.comGratitude has been such a life...

How to Overcome Procrastination & TAKE ACTION

06 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

1. Give yourself permission to suck; &2. Take a BABY STEP towards your goals.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200...

Go Outside & Hit on a Woman RIGHT NOW (Motivation)

04 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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Having, Doing, Being: The 3 Stages of Success

27 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

And how to level up your self-improvement game.$200 coaching calls with me: https://kyil-extra.com/callsApproach anxiety program: https://killyourinne...

How to breakup / end things amicably

25 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The original article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - htt...

'Happy Wife, Happy Life' Doesn't Resonate with Me. Here's Why.

23 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Normie sayings often lead to the exact opposite results of what people intend...$200 coaching calls: https://kyil-extra.com/calls🤝 The Abundance Co...

Whenever I fail, I do this:

21 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Here's another free chapter from my video course, "Play to Win: How I Built a Winner's Mindset".Grab the course here (pay whatever...

How I Kiss Girls on Dates

18 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

And what my dates generally look like - what I do on most dates.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https:/...

Questions to ask after sex (Afterglow)

16 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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Abundance mentality vs scarcity mindset (It's not what you think it is)

14 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Abundance mindset isn't necessarily about having ABUNDANCE - it's kinda the opposite.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching ...

How to Do MORE Cold Approaches (By Having FUN!)

12 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Approach Anxiety Program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/approach-anxiety-program Bumble BFF Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround Coaching...

Just hang in there. Keep showing up.

11 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In other words, just don't quit.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundanceco...

Depressed? It might be a "lack of..."

08 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

My thoughts on depression/hopelessness, & how to start breaking free of it.Depression resources (and how I beat my own depression): https://killyo...

Short? Worried no woman will give you a chance?

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I understand your insecurities... I've had plenty of my own.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https:...

Peace does not mean being passive.

06 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When I talk about acceptance in my content, I am NOT talking about "giving up" or "not doing anything to change your circumstance"...

Are YOU Helping Others, or Just Taking?

04 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Want to help others in your life (or maybe even start your own content creation) - friends, family, people you're dating, etc - but have no idea ...

MY JOURNEY: How I've Levelled Up My Content Over the Years

03 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Coaching - jump on a free call with me:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/apply-for-coaching/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching com...

Immy Got a Killer Job without a University Degree or Qualifications!

01 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Aka why you'll never live an elite life if you always do what everybody else tells you to do.I Broke All the Rules & it Made Me a Success (Pt...

Stop Doing Dumb Shit!! (Kill Your Inner Loser)

30 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How to clean up your life and reduce the activities that are sabotaging your life and holding you back from success.Coaching (payment plans available)...

You deserve an amazing sex life. (Kill Your Inner Loser)

29 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The question is, are you going to put in the steps required?🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyi...

Oneitis: Don't get hung up on 1 particular woman.

28 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Aka, how to be a strong independent man who don't need no woman ;)I Need Your Love: Is That True?  https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#i-ne...

A motivational speech for you in your time of need.

25 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

You got this; I promise.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆...

Are you ignoring your own progress & success?

24 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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What are my 3somes like? (Kill Your Inner Loser)

23 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How to Have 3somes Guide: https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/ecom/gb.php?&i=1742737&cl=387411&c=cart&ejc=2&custom=card&amount=-1🤝...

How I treat you guys well (my audience + clients)

22 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Laz interview (the client who went from $20k to $45k / month): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rpynaXV0SBE🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordabl...

I choose to believe POSITIVE stories

21 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The video course I mentioned (just pay $1): https://playtowinmindset.comCoaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our af...

I only do daytime dates now

20 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

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Empathy: How I became more empathetic

19 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Empathy is just a skill like any other - here's how to level it up.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) -...

Can you be 1% of your idols? (Kill Your Inner Loser)

18 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The 3some Guide I mentioned: https://www.fatfreecartpro.com/ecom/gb.php?&i=1742737&cl=387411&c=cart&ejc=2&custom=card&amount=-...

Can't enjoy life because you're not having sex? (Kill Your Inner Loser)

17 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Wish you had people to talk to about your lack of sexual experience and how it's affecting you? This podcast will help.Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even ...

Nervous to talk about sex?

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Covering some more "pain points" and struggles I've seen inexperienced guys go through.How to Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even if You're ...

The Meaning of Life / What does helping others feel like?

14 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Let's talk about the 3 levels of Self:1. The Basic (emotional) Self2. The Conscious (rational) Self3. The Higher (integrated/enlightened) SelfThe...

I thought I had the best relationship ever. I was wrong.

13 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Some thoughts on how we've improved our relationship over the years - and how I used to have the biggest ego ever when it came to our relationshi...

The Alpha Fraud: I used to be so god damn obsessed with being an Alpha Male

12 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Another video talking about this concept: Sense of Entitlement: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6MJXgOmSmU🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our afforda...

Less sex = you're less of a man? (Kill Your Inner Loser)

10 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How to deal with feelings of "not being man enough" if you're inexperienced or a virgin.How to Get Laid in 6 Weeks (Even If You're...

"What do I talk about on dates?" (Kill Your Inner Loser)

06 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

aka "How do I be perfect on dates?"🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abu...

Is a lack of sex ruining your life? (Kill Your Inner Loser)

03 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How to deal with performance anxiety, what to do if you're worried about sex being "creepy" or you're scared of "using women&...

Unhappy with your sex life? (Kill Your Inner Loser)

27 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I address feelings of low-self esteem due to lack of sexual success, lack of confidence, comparing yourself to others who have more sex than you, and ...

I fasted & didn't eat for 5.5 days (sorta...)

20 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I did a fast (sorta) over the last 6 days - it was a hell of a lot of fun.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month)...

Andy's Approach Anxiety Program: How to start approaching women

18 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Full explanation of the program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/approach-anxiety-program/This is a simple approach anxiety program that ANYONE can com...

Want confidence? Fail more, not less.

13 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The cheatcode to being more confident is running towards "failure/mistakes".🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community...

These People Transformed My Life

06 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

My thoughts on the coaches that have helped me the most.Keith (my spiritual coach): https://www.instagram.com/kj.coaching/Josh (my bodybuilding/fitnes...

Why Women CRY (We Don't Have to FIX Women's Emotions)

29 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Aka "Women cry a lot more than men".🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/ab...

Thankyou. (Thanksgiving Gratitude for You).

23 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

My journey from starting my website to getting to this point - and my thoughts on the future of Kill Your Inner Loser.🤝 The Abundance Collective (O...

Full of FEAR, DOUBT & LIMITING BELIEFS? Listen to this.

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

No matter what limiting beliefs, doubts, insecurities or fears you're going through, I promise you're ok, and everything is going to be ok -...

Your APPEARANCE is Your RESUME (Put in Some Effort)

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Immy & I Sleep in Separate Beds??

17 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

My article - Sleep is Paramount: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/ Matthew Walker's book - Why We Sleep: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is...

Storytime: How I Went Out to Bars/Clubs ALONE at Night

16 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A really fun, adventurous period of my life.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abun...

Can You Be HAPPY If You FAIL to Reach Your Goals?!?

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How to find generate outcome-independence and feel that abundance mentality.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/mont...

I Did 365 Pieces of Content in 365 Days!

14 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Full spreadsheet showing all the content I uploaded: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=shar...

OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE: My Goal is For You to Not Need Me

13 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The question that remains when you have true abundance mentality is: "What do I want?"🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching...

"I Have No Expectations, Only Curiousity."

12 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The wisest thing my friend ever told me.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundanc...

SUFFERING Comes From "IGNORANCE"

11 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Life Doesn't Give a F!@# About Your Plans (& That's Beautiful)

10 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

"The best laid plans of mice and men, sometimes go astray."🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - ht...

Grateful for Trauma?

09 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Even 'Beta Males' Have Sex

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Eventually, Everybody Lets You Down (Buddhism)

07 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If we let go of expectations, we can never again be disappointed.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https:...

Ghosting vs Honesty (The Benefits of Being Kind)

06 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Here's the text I send: "Hey, I really enjoyed meeting you but I'm not super feeling the chemistry and don't want to continue. It ...

Being Grateful for Right Now ("What if My Body was the Only Body on Earth?")

05 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ...

Reducing Social Media has Brought Me Peace

04 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In other words, moving towards what I DO want, rather than getting caught up in what I don't want.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable c...

My Magnum Opus is Now $1 [How I Built a Winners Mindset]

02 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Everything I've learned over the last 10 years, put into a video course.Grab it here (pay whatever you want - even if that's literally just ...

How I Sell Without Selling

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How I've embraced being more upfront and honest when it come to making money.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $20...

My Biggest Mission Right Now (& How You Can be a Part of It)

27 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I was a bit ramble-y in the podcast, so to be clear: If you'd like some sort of higher-tier coaching than the usual group coaching (eg you'd...

Are You Confusing SUFFERING with PROGRESS?

26 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself caught in the belief that suffering is the only path to success? 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching communit...

Confidence/Competence/Efficiency is Something you EARN

17 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You don't have to beat yourself up if you're not immediately confident when working on a new goal; that's completely normal.🤝 The Ab...

A 3some, Not Seeking Validation, Embracing Self-Love! [Client Interview]

10 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

One of my coaching clients, Avi, joins me to talk about all he's achieved so far in the coaching program:  He had a 3some, started his own busin...

29yo Virgin Has Sex 2 Weeks Before Turning 30! [Client Interview]

05 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A member of our coaching program's journey with losing his virginity, cold approaching more and showing himself that everything is ok, and everyt...