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Want confidence? Fail more, not less.

13 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The cheatcode to being more confident is running towards "failure/mistakes".🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community...

These People Transformed My Life

06 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

My thoughts on the coaches that have helped me the most.Keith (my spiritual coach): https://www.instagram.com/kj.coaching/Josh (my bodybuilding/fitnes...

Why Women CRY (We Don't Have to FIX Women's Emotions)

29 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Aka "Women cry a lot more than men".🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/ab...

Thankyou. (Thanksgiving Gratitude for You).

23 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

My journey from starting my website to getting to this point - and my thoughts on the future of Kill Your Inner Loser.🤝 The Abundance Collective (O...

Full of FEAR, DOUBT & LIMITING BELIEFS? Listen to this.

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

No matter what limiting beliefs, doubts, insecurities or fears you're going through, I promise you're ok, and everything is going to be ok -...

Your APPEARANCE is Your RESUME (Put in Some Effort)

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Immy & I Sleep in Separate Beds??

17 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

My article - Sleep is Paramount: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/ Matthew Walker's book - Why We Sleep: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is...

Storytime: How I Went Out to Bars/Clubs ALONE at Night

16 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A really fun, adventurous period of my life.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abun...

Can You Be HAPPY If You FAIL to Reach Your Goals?!?

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How to find generate outcome-independence and feel that abundance mentality.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/mont...

I Did 365 Pieces of Content in 365 Days!

14 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Full spreadsheet showing all the content I uploaded: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1tRviC5T5DNngM1nSikHcFaAHQb98P5-wmp1CNUGISBo/edit?usp=shar...

OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE: My Goal is For You to Not Need Me

13 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The question that remains when you have true abundance mentality is: "What do I want?"🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching...

"I Have No Expectations, Only Curiousity."

12 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The wisest thing my friend ever told me.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundanc...

SUFFERING Comes From "IGNORANCE"

11 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Life Doesn't Give a F!@# About Your Plans (& That's Beautiful)

10 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

"The best laid plans of mice and men, sometimes go astray."🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - ht...

Grateful for Trauma?

09 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Even 'Beta Males' Have Sex

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Eventually, Everybody Lets You Down (Buddhism)

07 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If we let go of expectations, we can never again be disappointed.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https:...

Ghosting vs Honesty (The Benefits of Being Kind)

06 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Here's the text I send: "Hey, I really enjoyed meeting you but I'm not super feeling the chemistry and don't want to continue. It ...

Being Grateful for Right Now ("What if My Body was the Only Body on Earth?")

05 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ...

Reducing Social Media has Brought Me Peace

04 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In other words, moving towards what I DO want, rather than getting caught up in what I don't want.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable c...

My Magnum Opus is Now $1 [How I Built a Winners Mindset]

02 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Everything I've learned over the last 10 years, put into a video course.Grab it here (pay whatever you want - even if that's literally just ...

How I Sell Without Selling

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How I've embraced being more upfront and honest when it come to making money.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $20...

My Biggest Mission Right Now (& How You Can be a Part of It)

27 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I was a bit ramble-y in the podcast, so to be clear: If you'd like some sort of higher-tier coaching than the usual group coaching (eg you'd...

Are You Confusing SUFFERING with PROGRESS?

26 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you find yourself caught in the belief that suffering is the only path to success? 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching communit...

Confidence/Competence/Efficiency is Something you EARN

17 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You don't have to beat yourself up if you're not immediately confident when working on a new goal; that's completely normal.🤝 The Ab...

A 3some, Not Seeking Validation, Embracing Self-Love! [Client Interview]

10 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

One of my coaching clients, Avi, joins me to talk about all he's achieved so far in the coaching program:  He had a 3some, started his own busin...

29yo Virgin Has Sex 2 Weeks Before Turning 30! [Client Interview]

05 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A member of our coaching program's journey with losing his virginity, cold approaching more and showing himself that everything is ok, and everyt...

34 Dates, $500, Self-Love & Authenticity! [Client Interview]

30 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Marcus talks about his accomplishments: 34 dates, a new business started, earning his first $500, opened up with women & embraced deep honesty, lo...

Feeling Like You Don't Belong in this Community?

25 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I promise you belong here.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆...

Nobody Can Disappoint You (You Disappoint YOURSELF)

20 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

The Reason Women Aren't Opening Up to You (YOU Need to Go First)

13 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO AN...

Why You're STUCK - The Juice (Payoff) is Stopping You from Growing (It's Serving a Purpose)

09 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The "excuses" and "limiting beliefs" you have are GETTING you something - they're SERVING A PURPOSE. That's why you hang...

Sex in Porn/Movies/TV, vs Real Life (Don't Be Smooth)

08 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

1 DAY LEFT to grab my coaching deal - pay in full and get 18 weeks instead of the usual 12: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching------------🤝 The Abunda...

How to MOVE in Order to Prioritise Your Goals (Moving Guide)

07 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

2 DAYS LEFT to grab my coaching deal - pay in full and get 18 weeks instead of the usual 12: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching----🤝 The Abundance Col...

Accept Where You Currently Are, Then Improve It (The Map Analogy)

06 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

3 DAYS LEFT - Grab the 18 week coaching deal now!https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-------🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching communit...

You'd Be UNHAPPY if Everyone in the World Did What You Wanted (Not Everyone is Going to Like You)

05 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

4 DAYS LEFT - grab the coaching deal here:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) ...

If You Don't Feel MASCULINE Enough... (You Were NOT Masculine as a Child)

04 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

5 DAYS LEFT!Grab the 18 week deal, but only when you pay in full in the next 5 days:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-------------------🤝 The Abundan...

Is it Time for You to BREAK UP?

03 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING DEAL: https://kyil-extra.com/coachingThe original breakup article: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/By the way - the advice Cam ...

Resisting the Urge to SETTLE in Sex/Dating/Love

02 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cam shares his thoughts on why most people (including his past self) settle in relationships/dating.** COACHING **Right now we've got a crazy goo...

A Modern Man's Guide to Assertiveness, Courage, & Respect

01 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let's hear what the politically-correct opinion is on masculinity; and I'll give my personal take on it.Right now we've got a crazy goo...

Exploring Self-Discovery, Dating, & Relationships: A Roller-Coaster Ride with Paw

31 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

*** COACHING ***Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and p...

My Client Had Wild Sexcapades in Columbia!

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

** COACHING **Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and pay...

The Approaches that Scare You the Most

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

*** COACHING ***Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll get 18 WEEKS instead of the usual 12 weeks, if you sign up NOW and p...

Oh No, You've Angered the Gods!

29 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

** COACHING **Grab the 18 week coaching deal - it's only for the next 12 days and only when you pay in full:https://kyil-extra.com/coaching------...

How to Stop Sending Butthurt Texts

25 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever sent a text in a moment of anger or rejection and instantly regretted it? We've all been there. Let's tackle this issue head-on, discus...

Break the Norm! (Did School Force You to Be "Socially Acceptable"?)

20 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We're about to turn everything you've been taught on its head. The structures of school and society, despite their many strengths, have not ...

This Guy Found SOLUTIONS Instead of Obsessing About His Problems

18 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt fear or self-doubt sabotaging your path to success?COACHING DEAL: Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal - you'll...

I Have Failed More Times than You Have Even Tried

18 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What does the journey to success look like? Brace yourself, as it is littered with failures, pitfalls, and rejections.  COACHING DEAL: Right now we&a...

Meditation is NOT About Having an Empty Mind...

16 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever tried to meditate, only to be frustrated by the incessant chatter in your mind? You’re not alone. I’ve been there too, wrestling wit...

Supercharge Your Life: Now's the Right Time! (Insane Coaching Deal)

15 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you ready to step up and experience the transformational power of intensive coaching? What if you could turbocharge your life in just 18 weeks? CO...

Invite Girls Back - They Like to Feel Wanted!

10 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever been tongue-tied or anxious about inviting a date back to your place? This episode is for you.COACHING DEAL: Right now we've got a crazy goo...

Be AMBITIOUS without the STRUGGLE

08 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever feel pressured to be perfect or fall into despair when you don't see the progress you crave? You're not alone. COACHING DEAL: Right now...

Should You Change for Women? (Approaching)

03 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you putting too much pressure on yourself when dating? This episode, I unpack the art of engaging with different personalities to ease that pressu...

You're SO CLOSE to a Breakthrough Moment (Not Every Rejection is the Same)

31 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You likely have no idea just how close you are to making it. Just don't quit.COACHING DEAL: Right now we've got a crazy good coaching deal -...

WHY Gratitude is So Life-Changing (How Gratitude Works)

27 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wondered why some people seem to reach their goals effortlessly while others struggle and strain? What's the secret to their success? The an...

How This Guy Changed his Life.

24 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Previous video on this topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUoMsWSSmlk🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month)...

ABUNDANCE MENTALITY: "What If I Didn't Need Anything from this Person?"

18 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What if you could unlock a cheat code to living a more abundant and fulfilling life? I Need Your Love: Is That True? by Byron Katie: https://kyil-extr...

Feel Like a FRAUD when Starting Self-Improvement?

12 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever felt the gnawing fear of judgement, of standing out, when you're at the cusp of personal growth? What if it's this fear that's sti...

You Already Know the Answer (The SOLUTION is Inside You)

10 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Feeling overwhelmed by life's problems and not sure how to turn things around? Listen as I share the importance of shifting our focus from proble...

Why I DON'T Hookup at Night (Sober Daytime Dates are a Cheatcode)

03 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Tired of the same old bar scene for dates? Discover how breaking free from the traditional nighttime bar dates and opting for daytime alternatives can...

"How Can I Stop Imagining My Entire Life with This Girl?"

30 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Q: "How can I stop imagining my entire life with a girl I know online? My ex girlfriend introduced her to me and we've only been interacting...

Why I'm Grateful to You (I Didn't Want to Be Here Today)

26 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever had one of those days where you feel like giving up on your self-improvement journey? Listen to this.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordabl...

This Collection of Molecules is in the Wrong Place

24 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our frustrations often fall into three variables - position, time, and intention (direction). Let's talk about that.🤝 The Abundance Collective...

There's No Such Thing as "Bad"

21 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's all about the stories we tell about our own lives.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~...

STOP ARGUING (When You Defend, You Lose)

19 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of getting caught up in arguments that only bring suffering and pain into your life? Here's how to find common ground, even with pe...

Society WANTS You to Be a Loser (Being a LOSER is Socially Acceptable)

14 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

F*ck being average.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~📜 Updated list of 365 Day ...

Why Most People Quit Self-Improvement (COMFORTABLY UNCOMFORTABLE)

13 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you caught in the trap of comfort, feeling unsatisfied yet unsure how to break free? What if we told you that pushing past your comfort zone could...

Just TAKE ACTION. Don't Worry About Your Vices.

12 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does achieving success mean you have to eliminate all your vices?What if I told you that you can still reach your goals without giving up everything y...

LIFECHANGING: Hit on Women for 100 Days

09 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I challenge you, my fearless listeners, to take immediate action and face your fears when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships. I know firsthand...

Scared You'll Fall Back into Old Habits? (There's no Going Back)

07 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You can't untake the red pill.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~📜 Updated ...

This Guy Had an INSTADATE!

05 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever let fear hold you back from approaching someone you were attracted to?In this inspiring episode, I share an incredible story of a guy in...

How to Stop Moving the Goalposts (& Be GRATEFUL)

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Gratitude is a cheat code to achieving more - and enjoying the damn process along the way.---------------🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): http...

Girls WANT You to Hit on Them (Hitting on Women is GIVING them Something)

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coaching---------------My massive (free) Tinder/Self-Improvement Guide:https://kyil-extra.c...

This Asian Guy Completely Changed His Life!

18 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you're an Asian dude who worries women won't like you, you need to listen to this episode.COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyi...

Feeling Like a LOSER? (Insecurity is Your Best Friend)

16 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You feel insecure, you compare yourself to others that are ahead of you, and you always feel like you're not good enough. Listen to this podcast....

The Bicycle & the Tree (Winners Mindset vs Losing Mindset)

11 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How to focus on what you WANT, rather than obsessing about what you DON'T want.The Winners Club:Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching...

Life Update & The Future of My Content

08 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The direction of my channel(s) and the future of Kill Your Inner Loser.---------------🏆 COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/...

How to ACTUALLY Stick to Your Goddamn Plans!

04 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The cheatcode to actually following through on the promises you make yourself.COACHING (Payment plans available): https://kyil-extra.com/coachingSignu...

Cut the NPC Crap: Stop Telling Yourself "I Can't"  

02 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You are more powerful than you think you are.COACHING - free enquiry call with me: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw---------------My massive (free)...

Exclusive Inside Look: My Coaching Program Revealed!

27 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Click here for Coaching: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching-sfw00:00 Intro00:24 What are the guys in the program like?02:01 What does the group experienc...

AI is Coming & May Wipe Us All Out. Here's How to Make Peace with it. (Chat GPT 4)

24 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

My thoughts on using stoicism and self-improvement to steel yourself against your fear of death - and fear of the death of humanity.COACHING:Want to s...

You're UNSTOPPABLE - Stop Caring if They Leave You (The Train Analogy)

18 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The train analogy will stop others from impacting your success. The Winners Club:Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching program and get dir...

The "Brick" Metaphor will Bring You Limitless Success

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The brick metaphor has helped me so much when it comes to being PATIENT with my journey. The Winners Club:Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my co...

NO EXCUSES: I'll Change Your Life for $200.

10 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yep - $200, 30min coaching calls.Contact me for the calls here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contactWhat the calls entail:$200 USD, 30 minsAny topic...

Drop Your Ego! Your Limiting Beliefs Are Holding You Back

06 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Want to smash your goals? Sign up for my coaching program and get direct help from me in any area you want. Also, get on demand help from my fellow-co...

Women are Just Humans with a Pussy [Dating/Relationships]

03 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sign up for The Winners Club here - it's essentially PAY TO WIN:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw--------------HONESTY: A Girl We’re ...

Spending Time with Friends is a Waste of Time?

30 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared o...

I'm Getting OLDER: Is Dating Getting HARDER? [Sex/Dating]

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING: You've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared o...

Nobody Supports You? Let's Fix That.

28 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwHow to Make Friends: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/🤝 The...

My Coaching Client is Married with Kids?!? (Advice for Fatherhood)

27 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared o...

I Cut Out all Negative Social Media. Here's What Happened.

25 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if you're scared o...

YOU Need to Pull the Trigger (I Can't Do it For You) [General]

24 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

"If it is to be, it's up to me."COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (paym...

Normal People Aren't as Driven as You (You're Doing Great) [General]

24 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you're frustrated that you're not making enough progress, listen to this episode.Relax, You’re Making Progress: https://killyourinnerlo...

The 3 Components of Success

16 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The Slight Edge: https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/COACHING: you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE ...

365 Day Projects are AMAZING! (Day 104 Update)

13 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Doing something every day is a cheat code for becoming elite.COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elit...

Guilt for Not Using Your Time Productively (Spending Time with Friends is PRODUCTIVE) [Friends/Social]

09 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I talk about that feeling of "I can't relax/I can't take time off, I'm running out of time in my life to achieve my goals!" I...

When You're On Your Deathbed, What Do You Want to Have Achieved [General]

07 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

HARDCORE COACHING PACKAGES - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if m...

This Guy DOUBLED His Lay Count in 2 Weeks!

01 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Plus a big discussion about giving yourself permission to go what you want - even if other people think your goals are "stupid".COACHING PAC...

"28 Years Old & Never Had a Relationship" [Dating/Sex]

28 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's more  common than you think.Tinder (and retention, and self-improvement) Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw/I Am Always...

This Guy Made Money, Found Peace & Happiness, Had Sex & Started a Coaching Business! [Client Story]

26 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

COACHING - you've procrastinated long enough. Let's build you the elite life you DESERVE (payment plans are available if money is tight): ht...