For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Have you ever said, “You made me so mad”? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs unpacks the hidden cost of blaming others for your anger—and the freedom that comes when you take full responsibility for your actions. If you’re ready to step out of blame, stop the cycle of conflict and take back control of your emotions, this episode offers the insights and tools you need to begin.Key Takeaways:-Blaming others for your anger gives away your power and keeps you stuck in reactive, unhealthy patterns.-Taking responsibility for your actions means owning your choices, not justifying or excusing hurtful behavior.-Four common reasons people avoid responsibility include fear of consequences, family conditioning, entitlement and shame.-Real change begins with acknowledging your actions, accepting the consequences, and committing to a plan for change.-Anger management programs provide essential skills for managing emotions in real time—something therapy often doesn’t cover.-Taking ownership of your anger is a courageous step that leads to more respectful, loving, and empowered relationships.Links referenced in this episode:angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger managementangersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycleangersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System
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