Trey Couldn’t Get It Up (S3 E12 "Don't Ask Don't Tell")
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Hi, I'm Kristen Davis, and I want to know, are you a Charlotte? All right, everybody. Hello, hello. Hi, hi. We are here. We are going to just do a little bit more recapping. We just talked to the lovely and intelligent Clark Gregg, who is really, really fun. He's in this episode. This episode is called Don't Ask, Don't Tell. It aired in... 2000, the year 2000, and it is such a massive, massive episode written by Cindy Shupak, directed by Dan Algrant. So we're just going to recap a little bit more because so many things happened. And I just didn't want to skip over any of them. So first of all, let's talk Charlotte and Trey. So as I'm rewatching this episode, I did not remember it. So many things that I did not remember.
Like what I remember most is the... wedding itself. You know, it was such a long, long day and everyone fell asleep but me. And I was so happy and running around and Kyle was so adorable. And I remember being so incredibly stressed about how I had to tell Carrie that he couldn't get it up, that Trey couldn't get it up. Because that was kind of like this big, you know, moment where we had been you know, wondering and waiting. I also completely forgot that I get drunk in like the night before. It's also weird because I thought we went out and I wore like a tiara, like bridesmaid thing or whatever, like a, what do you call it? Like a veil, like how women do when they're going to get married. I thought that we had done that.
Like I have so many different ideas in my head than what we actually did. I thought that we all go out for like the night before like a bachelorette party or whatever but we don't it's interesting I do Charlotte does manage somehow to get drunk which is interesting also but no one else really seems drunk anyway it looks like we're just at like a restaurant or a coffee shop I don't understand what happened in this plot meaning why doesn't Charlotte have a bachelorette party and in my mind I did but clearly it was only in my mind because it's not in the episode and I'm wearing this really adorable sparkly sweater which I I think I still own um
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:00–10:32
2
What is the significance of the episode titled 'Don't Ask Don't Tell'?
10:32–13:22
3
How does Kristin feel about Charlotte's decision to wait until marriage for sex?
13:22–14:43
4
Why were actors falling asleep during the filming of this episode?
14:43–15:39
5
What shocking scene does Kristin reveal from the episode?
15:39–18:05
6
What behind-the-scenes details does Kristin share about Charlotte's wedding?
18:05–21:09
7
How does Kristin describe John Corbett's performance in this episode?
21:09–29:19
8
What unresolved issues are highlighted in Charlotte and Trey's relationship?
29:19–44:24
Speakers
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