As UR Big Sister Podcast

EP 201: The Shame of Being the Broke Friend

10 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Helllloooo sisterrrsss, I hope y'all enjoy today's episode :)Subscribe to my Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ajamyqueenBUS...

EP 200: Let Life Change You

03 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyyy sistersssss, Welcome to episode 200!!!! Today we will be talking about how we should allow our experience, what we learn and who we meet alon...

EP 199: you've got no other choice but to start where you are

19 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

heyyyy sisterrrssss, today we will be talking about how we all have to start where we are, no matter where it is. I hope y'all enjoy :) BUSINESS I...

EP 198: STRICT AND ALONE

14 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'all today we will be talking about how being alone is worth it when the other side is dealing with BS! I hope y'all enjoy :)BUSINESS INQ...

EP 197: you look your age and THAT'S okay

05 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

HEY SISTERRSSSSS,Today we will be talking about holding on to "looking young" drives me INSANE LOL BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA199...

EP 196: he's not gay, he's a bad person & you don't care

29 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hellllooooo y'all, I hope you enjoy :)BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASU...

EP 195: Be a magnet to your desires

22 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello sistersss,Today we will be talking about being a good receiver can help you become a magnet of your desires I hope y’all enjoy!Subscribe to my...

EP 194: do NOT internalize their bad behavior

15 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello sistersss,This episode we will be talking about the following:-Selena Gomez having the best self love song (0:00-4:22)-How we should not interna...

EP 193: be the support system you are asking for

08 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hey sisterssss, today we will be talking about the following:-Navigating grief- How to accept not being supported by the ones you love-Storytimes ruin...

EP 192: embrace your flop era

01 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

hey sisssterrrs!today we will be talking about how the glow up journey burned me out & how I'm planning to just embrace it. hope you enjoy!!!S...

EP 191: do NOT have that man's baby

24 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

hope you guys enjoy lololololol BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASURBIGSISTERSu...

EP 190: LION DADDY

17 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

hi sistersssss, today we will be talking about the following family history of liars + hitting children leads to insecure adults + being the friend yo...

EP 189: BECOME OBSESSED WITH YOURSELF PART 2

10 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beauty queens! Today we will be talking about falling in love with the way you move through the world and how this is a more sustainable way to ...

EP 188: ARE WE OKAY ??

27 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello my sistaaaas, Today we will be talking about my sobriety journey (10:03-21:23), why I don’t like going to clubs (21:23-29:14), the coffee date...

EP 187: Stuck in the Suburbs (feat. Satomaa)

21 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello sistasss, I hope you are all doing well. Today we are talking about:-Women speaking against BBLs-My Sobriety Journey -Growing up in the suburbs ...

EP 186: DON'T BECOME AN OLD HATER

14 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hellllooo sistaaaas,Today we will be talking about: -Not liking action movies-Women who get older and decide they want to sh*t on younger women-Being ...

EP 185: Nicolandrians, let’s chat

07 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

HELLO MY SISTASSSS ! Today we will be talking about:-My talent show dance to Goodies -How to ignore men when you're out- Nicolandria Hive doing to...

EP 184: WHITE FACE

31 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello sisterssss !Today we will be talking about adjusting the way we communicate in order to better connect with people. I hope you enjoy :)Subscribe...

EP 183: WE CAN’T SAVE THEM ALL

17 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful ladies! Today we will be talking about fake girl's girls, Prince falling off stage, racism being a waste of time and much much more! I...

EP 182: AFTERSUN (UNCUT)

12 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, Today we will be talking about last night's episode and all the shenanigans. BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA1995@gma...

EP 181: MCDONALDS IS HIRING

10 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people,Today we will be talking about dating one of the Wiggles, liking gay men to lesbian pipeline, we don't have to reply to every D...

EP 180: CAN I PULL YOU FOR A CHAT?

03 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, Today we will be talking about speaking to my dad for the first time in months, my cousin’s birthday party, Love Island reca...

EP 179: THE GIRLS ARE ON DR*GS

26 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, Today we will be talking about how we need to have more compassion for people because the girls are on THE DRUGOS, then we ge...

EP 178: CLOCK IN TO LIFE

19 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, Today we will be talking about being an understanding big sister, Love Island, dating people with kids & how we should co...

EP 177: STINKY BOOTY AND CHANEL BAGS

12 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, Today we will be talking about how we see status in the things we HAVE more than the way we take care of ourselves. Then I ge...

EP 176: The Girl Who Was "TOO FAST"

05 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger warning @ 12:20Hello beautiful people, In today's episode we will be talking about being the girl, the adults said were "fast", we will also t...

EP 175: LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE

29 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Sorry for the 10 min episode last week lol... the goal is an hour. Baby steps 😂Today we will talk about social media not feeling safe, not getting ...

EP 174: WE ARE ALL A LITTLE SCARED

22 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, Today's episode, we will be talking about how we should have a different kind of conversation with fear. Maybe she doesn&#...

EP 173: YOU CAN'T SIT HERE

15 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people,Welcome to episode 173!!!! Today we will be talking about how I have been gate keeping my time and energy and why it had to get...

EP 172: CALL HER JUDGE JUDY

06 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, The girlzzzzz are mad and I DON'T CARE LMAOOOOO hope y'all enjoy!Subscribe to my Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube...

EP 171: BE WHO YOU ARE FOR YOUR PRIDEEEE

01 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

HELLLLOOOO BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE, I'm coming to you with a story time today. BUCKLE TF UP !!Subscribe to my Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@...

EP. 170: WHAT'S TEA ????

24 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

hello beautiful people.I hope you enjoy today’s episode, today we will be talking about why I think we are disconnected at times. I don’t think we...

EP 169: I MIGHT BE A HATER

17 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Helllloooo beautiful people, Today we are mostly talking about the huge mistake I have made as a content creator. For so long I thought all I had to d...

EP 168: PASSING OUT AT BABY SHOWERS

10 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, I hope you enjoy today's episode. We get into a lot... my first time cussing feeling so good, what happened at my cousin&#...

Ep 167: 'Ol young dumbie

03 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Helllloooo beautiful people, Happy Thursday, I hope you enjoy today's video :)Subscribe to my Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ajamyqueen

EP. 166 FIX MY PHONE !!!

27 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

WHY TF IS TREY SONGZ ON MY TIMELINE ????!!!!Subscribe to my Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ajamyqueenBUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA...

EP. 165 THE LIPGLOSS IS ON

20 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, I hope you all enjoy Chapters:BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT:[email protected] FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQ...

EP. 164 GIRLS WHO DATE GIRLS WHO DON'T LIKE GIRLS

13 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, I hope you enjoy :)Subscribe to my Youtube Channel: https://youtube.com/@ajamyqueen?si=-iLE0ZHdNxPBwMpUBUSINESS INQUIRIES CONT...

EP. 163 A CONVERSATION WITH MY SISTER

27 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Helllloooooo beautiful people, I hope you guys enjoy this episode! My sister crazy lmaooooo BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW...

EP. 162 The Kendrick Bowl

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Excuse me, I'm passionate this morning.BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASUR...

EP. 161 I am taking up space

06 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautiful people, I hope you enjoy today's conversation :) Chapters: 0:00-02:46 Intro 02:46-05:26 The death of Michael Jackson 05:26- 07:39 E...

EP. 160 YOU ARE LIVING IN A MIRACLE

23 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyy y'all hope you enjoy this episode !! LOVE Y'ALL BUSINESS INQUIRIES  CONTACT: [email protected]   FOLLOW ME ON:  INSTAGRAM & TI...

EP. 159 Let's Start Playing Again

09 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hello beautifullllll people, Today we are talking about TikTok drama for the first HALF of the episode (I didn't mean to talk that long about it). T...

EP. 158 Don't change who you are, change the people around you

11 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hellllooooo beautiful people, Today we are talking about being a big cry baby, ONCE AGAINNNNN! I believe we can use our sensitives as a super power. ...

EP. 157 Holiday Survival Kit

05 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

hey y'alllll, usually I'd tell y'all to tell them to GO TO HELL, but I'm trying something different this year. brb I'll let you know how it goes. WA...

EP. 157 The Bar Is In Hell

27 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'alll, Today we will talking about how people JUST LIKING us, isn't enough. We are likable people, so that's light work... I hope you enjoy today...

EP. 157 Like Wine | Appreciating Time & Age

17 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

hey y'all, some of this ep made NO sense... so pls be in a kinda high-like state of mind. Jaden smith levels. enjoy the episode lolol New vlog ever...

EP. 156 THIS IS WHY YOU ARE STILL OBSESSED WITH HIGHSCHOOL

30 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'all, so today we are talking about a lot (ofc). we touch on having the option to leave someone you COULD HAVE BEEN DUMB ABOUT. we then move on ...

EP 155: MY GRANDPA STOLE OUR HOME PHONE

16 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'allll Today we will be talking about why you shouldn't care about who likes you because uhhhhhh... just why?? and then we get into the sacrific...

EP 154: WHEN I WAS A YOUNG WARTHOG

09 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

HEYYY Y'ALL !! Today we will be talking about how much I can't stand my neighbor (the b*tch who owns the dogs that attacked me in 2022) which made me ...

EP 153: ITS THAT DAMN PHONE

02 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'alllllll here's a new episode :) thank you so much for listening/watching BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW ME ...

EP 152: ANTIDEPRESSANTS WORKING ON ME + MY GHETTO JOB + YOU DON'T LIKE HIM FR

19 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'M STILL HERE - TISHA CAMPBELL BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASU...

EP 152: BRAIDED WIGS (feat. MY GF)

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'all this episode we will be covering hot topics with my girlfriend chiming in to see what is up on my side of the internet. Hope you enjoy BUSIN...

EP 151: MEET YOURSELF WHERE YOU ARE

12 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'all !! This is for my girls who are hard on themselves. I SEE YOU lolololol BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW...

EP 150: An Online Liar

05 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'alllllll !!!Today we will be talking about how our online persona should not be enough.We should aspire to be who we want to be IN REAL LIFE! I ...

EP 149: GO WHERE YOU ARE CELEBRATE, NOT TOLERATED

08 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to episode 149, I hope you enjoy :)
Chapters:
0:00-1:36: INTRO 1:36-4:23 JHENE AIKO AND BOHO BRAIDS4:23-28:48 GO WHERE YOU ARE CELEBRATED ...

EP 148: DON’T LET THEM STEAL YOUR JOY

01 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: [email protected] FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASURBIGSISTER

EP 147: STOP BEING A HATER

25 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

HEY Y'ALL WELCOME TO EPISODE 147 LOL TODAY WE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT TAKING YOURSELF OUT ON DATES, BEING ENVIOUS OF PEOPLE THAT YOU SEE WINNING, ...

EP 146: REPOED AT 21

18 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

HEYYYYY Y'ALL Welcome to episode 146 !!! Where we will be talking about being scammed by a homeless dude, being the brokest friend in the group and ...

EP 145: IS SHE MEAN OR SOCIALLY AWKWARD???

11 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy y’all, today we will be talking about building/ manifesting community, stalker ex best friends & how we should give people room to be themsel...

EP 144: MALE VALIDATION IS CHEAP CONNECTION

27 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Follow me on Instagram and TikTok @ajamyqueen & @asurbigsister also check out my new vlog: https://youtu.be/V7PWGy_68XA?si=fbc8jYlGIEbYNxN-

EP 143: THE PRICE YOU PAY FOR LOVING YOURSELF

20 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Homeboy had a fat butt and tight jeans talking about MY SCAR !!! FOLLOW ME: @ajamyqueen @asurbigsister

EP 142: AJA MYQUEEN WANTS TO BE A BETTER FRIEND

12 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

But don’t we all 🤷🏾‍♀️ WATCH ON YouTube: https://youtu.be/hnRzrRY9G2I Follow me on Instagram & TikTok: @ajamyqueen Podcast Instagra...

EP 141: CONFESSIONS OF A LOUD BLACK LADY

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Topics: -Black women can’t be passionate - Fannita & TikTok drama -Your content sucks bc you act too cool. Hope you guys enjoy!!! Instagram & TikTok...

EP 140: PERFECTION ISN’T NECESSARY

31 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today we will be talking about a conversation I had with my friend. We discussed my lack of communication when I am not in the best place... you'll be...

EP 139: DO NOT SPIN THE BLOCK

29 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

An teenage love affair FOLLOW ME EVERYWHERE: @ajamyqueen

EP 138: LETSSSS ENJOY OUR 20s

22 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyy y'alllll, I am so happy to be back! Today we are talking about how we don't have to hate our 20s. I have come up with a couple of things we c...

EP 137: 30 GOING ON 13

01 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy frens! Today we are going to talk about staying grateful for where we are now and how I like to stop and smell the roses instead of always bein...

EP 136: FORGOT ABOUT DRE

25 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Y’all I’m spilling… let’s keep this between us.

EP 135: DELULU DIARIES

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We talk being in my insecure era, OJ Simpson kicking the bucket & why people start to lie after people pass away . Then we end it with tips on how to ...

EP 134: FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOUR BFF, NAVIGATING HATERS & LOVING YOURSELF IN YOUR 20s + MORE...

10 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Muahhhhh no bars

EP 133: THE MOST CHAOTIC NIGHT EVER

07 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

WTF IS LIFE ?!!!??!

EP 132: CONFESSIONS OF A SENSITIVE GIRL

03 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guyssss! AWW I like today's episode. We will first do a mental health check (I think we are going to continue this) then we will be talking about...

EP 131: 20 SOMETHINGS… Y’ALL ALRIGHT?

27 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy guyysssss today we will be talking about some THANGSSSS… of course the intro is a story time lol (0:00-8:22) thennn i gotta give my girl Ciar...

EP 130: THUMB HEAD

20 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyyy y’all, today we will be talking about allllooootttttt! First we get into the “what I am ashamed to admit as a black person” trend… YA...

EP 129: SMART, DUMB GIRL SYNDROME

13 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyy guys! Welcome to episode 129! Today we will be talking about that new Glorilla song (THE BEST SHIIII I HAVE EVER HEARD) then we get into the ti...

EP 128: FAILING LOUDLY

06 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Girl this episode all over the place …

EP 127: FREE FALLING

27 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How a sheltered girl jumped out the sky 🫶🏾

EP 126: WE ALL EFF UP SOMETIMES

22 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

*shrugs*

EP 125: ALL THE PRETTY GIRLS WANNA BE GAY

14 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Valentine’s Day 🥰🥰🥰

EP 124: TRY SELF COMPASSION INSTEAD OF ATTEMPTING PERFECTION

09 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'all We back with another videoooo *TINK TINK* Today we will be talking about self compassion and how being patient and nice to ourself will ke...

EP 123: EITHER THEY GET IT OR THEY DON’T

06 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We gon’ ball regardless 😉 ALI TOMINEEK’S NEW VIDEO: https://youtu.be/xQBmRsH4I3A?si=zli9OVfPcZzpDOsF

EP 122: WATCH WHO YOU TELL UR GOOD NEWS TO

30 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyy frennns! I had a lot to say today

EP 121: Hoppin on the Homies

23 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y'all, how you zoinnnnn ??? today we will be talking about a lot. I go on many rants here so just stay with LOL its a good episode!

EP 120: Just fake AF

15 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy guys !! Today we are talking about A LOT 😂😂😂 first, my boss got me messed up… ALREADY! MLK day is interracial couples’ favorite ho...

EP 119: My Eyes are Open

08 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy y’all, happy 2024 🎉🎉🎉 today we will be talking about willingly leaving people behind who aren’t willing to better themselves. We a...

EP 118: WE ARE CONFIDENT GWORLS IN 2024

27 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guyssss! Today we will be talking about confidence and ways we can enter the new year on a good note. I wish you all so much good, thank you all ...

EP 117: The customer is always WRONG

22 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy guys, today we are going to talk about my worst customer experience. I’ve got sooo many stories of some of the oddest people I met working at...

EP 116: Crashing Out

18 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyy guys !! Today we will be talking about our openness (or lack their of) to speak to our friends when we see them on a destructive path. Are you u...

EP 115: HUMANIZE TIKTOK INFLUENCERS

11 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys!! Today we will be talking about TikTok drama… there’s always something going on 🥹 A couple weeks ago a Black creator said,”a white...

EP 114: Find YOUR safe space

04 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! Today we will be talking about the importance of being in your safe spaces especially when you are in a season of uncertainty. Our spaces p...

EP 113: Baby shirt with the belly at the bottom

30 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey frennnsss! Today we will be talking about meeting the fam for Thanksgiving, sometimes it can be rough. The anxiety, hoping they like you… SHIII...

EP 112: TAKE ME TO BELLA NOCHES

27 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guyssss! Today we will be talking about why outside isn’t fun anymore. Is outside really the problem? Have we taken the main character trope a l...

EP 111: A Self Compassionate Revolutionary

17 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

*deep negro sigh*

EP 110: Confrontation with the Ops, Rap Music being Toxic & Loving yourself even when it’s hard

09 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy y’all… today we’re talking about a lot! So hold on, it’s a rollercoaster ride we’re on (Jonas Brothers lyric 😉) how would y’all ...

EP 109: First dates women ain’t going on

26 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guyyys! Today we will be talking about the list the BROKE the internet LMAOOOO (I hate when people say that) where are the ladies saying they will...

EP 108: My first influencer event

19 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When you beat the voices in your head

EP 107: She Just Doesn't Care

12 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How to be unbothered 101

EP 106: SHE’S A BRAND NEW GWORL

05 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

SHE'S BACKKKKK. New name, new b!tch*muahhhh*

EP 105: Bad B!tches Have Bad Days Too

24 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Y’all 🙄