In this episode of Autism and the Neuroverse, Alta sits down with Amanda Baker, Operations Director at New Focus Academy, to break down the ABCs of de-escalation and how understanding the limbic system can completely change the way we respond to escalating behavior. Amanda explains how the ABC model helps identify the activating event, the belief behind the event, and the consequential emotion that drives behavior—because it’s often not what happened that causes escalation, but what someone believes about what happened. You’ll also learn the difference between escalating beliefs vs. adaptive beliefs, why reflective listening is such a powerful de-escalation tool, and how empathy builds connection while still allowing adults to set limits. This conversation is packed with practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers supporting autistic kids, teens, and young adults—especially when emotions are high and regulation feels out of reach.10/24/25

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