Discover why your 40s are not about finishing but about awakening your true self. Host Dr. Harmony Robinson-Stagg explores the transformative journey women experience during midlife, focusing on self-awareness, boundaries, and embracing authentic power. Key Topics:The misconception that the 40s are a decade of completion, and how this view is misleadingThe shift from trying to meet societal expectations to discovering and owning your true selfHow hormonal shifts and aging influence emotional resilience and confidenceThe significance of boundary-setting and letting go of people-pleasing behavioursThe role of discernment and higher intellect (buddhi mind) in making aligned life choicesWomen’s inner work: understanding oneself through lived experience versus superficial knowledgeGrieving old dreams and embracing freedom through authenticity and self-acceptanceThe importance of soul nourishment and aligning life to inner valuesHow women in their 40s embody power, honesty, and unapologetic self-expressionLinks:Ayurveda and the Alchemy of Her BookHarmony Robinson-Stagg’s Website Follow Harmony on Instagram Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction: Embracing the transformative nature of the 40s00:23 - Why women in their 40s are entering a new chapter of self-discovery00:50 - The cultural myths about what your 40s should look like01:17 - Your 40s as a time for higher self and authentic becoming01:45 - How women realize their true power and self-knowledge in this decade02:14 - The importance of boundary strength and confidence in midlife02:42 - Letting go of societal expectations and false narratives03:11 - The shift from trying to fit into predefined roles to living authentically03:39 - Women’s wisdom about the hormonal and emotional changes during this time04:05 - Understanding the internal shifts that happen after age 4004:34 - Moving from caring what others think to knowing your own truth05:03 - The impact of aging on body and mindset, and how women adapt05:32 - Lower tolerance for inauthenticity and performative behavior05:51 - Stepping into power by stopping people pleasing and setting boundaries06:21 - External perceptions of women becoming “difficult” after boundary-setting06:51 - The value in authenticity and the respect it garners07:20 - Building stronger boundaries and respecting oneself in relationships07:31 - Developing discernment (buddhi mind) to prioritise what nourishes or drains08:00 - Recognising authentic work and soul nourishment during midlife08:19 - Stepping away from compromises that no longer serve your higher purpose08:49 - Acting on inner knowing and letting yourself shine09:12 - Confidence rooted in lived experience, not perfection09:34 - Women in their 40s doing inner work to understand patterns and edges10:00 - Owning space, rejecting self-sabotage, and embracing self-worth10:29 - Moving from approval-seeking to self-acceptance and power11:00 - The importance of honesty over superficial likability11:14 - The necessity of grieving old identities and embracing new freedom11:34 - Letting go of old dreams, relationships, and false beliefs11:58 - The liberation on the other side of grief and transformation12:26 - Recognizing your ongoing evolution and awakening process12:50 - Seeing your 40s as a period of coming together, not falling apart13:22 - Invitation to explore higher self through Harmony’s book and community

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