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Ep. 279 Parental Leave for Physicians: Challenges & Strategies with Dr. Danielle Velez
09 Dec 2025
If you’re navigating pregnancy, postpartum, or return-to-work stress, you are not alone. In this BackTable Urology × SWIU collaboration, Dr. Danielle Velez (Rutgers Health) joins host Dr. Helen Bernie (Indiana University Health) for a candid conversation on navigating parental leave, lactation, and the emotional turbulence of stepping back into clinical practice. Together, they unpack boundary-setting, finding a support system, protecting partnership time, and giving yourself grace through each stage of early parenthood. --- SYNPOSIS The discussion highlights the power of mentorship, community, and transparency, especially for physicians balancing patient care and family life. From combo-feeding and night nannies to sleep deprivation, identity shifts, and the six-month reevaluation rule, both guests share wisdom they hope future trainees and new parents won't have to learn alone. This episode is a reminder that things get easier with time, that asking for help is strength, not weakness, and that paying it forward makes the path smoother for the next generation. --- TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Introduction03:07 - Support Systems, Mentorship and Maternity Leave09:03 - Navigating Lactation and Pumping19:21 - Lactation Resources25:58 - Finding Your Village and Outsourcing Tasks34:31 - Balancing Parenthood and Career42:26 - Sleep Deprivation and Protecting Your Schedule55:14 - Maintaining Spousal Relationships59:20 - Rebuilding Your Practice Post-Maternity Leave01:03:56 - Final Thoughts and Advice for New Parents --- RESOURCES Dr. MILK (Mothers Interested in Lactation Knowledge) Support Grouphttps://www.drmilk.org/
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