Walking on Eggshells: What the Unfaithful Spouse Must Know This Holiday Season | E299
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Walking on Eggshells: How the Unfaithful Spouse Can Navigate Holiday Triggers Without Making Things ...
Holiday Anxiety After Betrayal? Here’s How to Calm Your Body Fast | E298
05 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why are anxiety, sleepless nights, and emotional overwhelm so intense during the holidays after infi...
Why the Holidays Intensify Pain After Betrayal—and How to Protect Your Heart | E297
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why does betrayal hurt so much more during the holidays? In this deeply validating episode, Lisa Li...
When Family Doesn't Know: Managing Confidentiality, Boundaries, and Awkward Questions During Holiday Gatherings | E296
28 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Navigating family gatherings after infidelity is one of the most overwhelming parts of the holiday s...
A Heartfelt Thanksgiving Thank-You to the Beauty Beyond Betrayal Community | E295
27 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
n this special Thanksgiving episode, Lisa pauses to share a heartfelt message of gratitude with the ...
How to Handle Holiday Triggers After Betrayal: Navigating Parties, Memories, and Unexpected Landmines | E294
27 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Holiday triggers after infidelity are real—and they can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Lisa ...
Betrayal Trauma vs. PTSD: Why Infidelity Shatters the Brain Differently | E293
21 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is betrayal trauma real trauma? Absolutely. In this episode, Lisa breaks down the key differences be...
Why Traditional Couples Counseling Fails After Infidelity (and What Actually Heals Betrayal Trauma) | E292
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Traditional marriage counseling can actually make things worse after infidelity — but trauma-infor...
Can a Fallen Pastor Ever Lead Again? Biblical Truth About Restoration After Adultery | E291
14 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When a pastor commits adultery, the fallout ripples through marriages, ministries, and entire faith ...
Betrayal Blindness and Anger: Why You Didn’t See It Coming—and How God Brings Clarity | E290
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder why you didn’t see the betrayal coming—or why you feel so angry now that you know th...
What Exactly Is an Emotional Affair? Understanding the Hidden Betrayal That Can Destroy a Marriage | E289
07 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What Exactly Is an Emotional Affair? Understanding the Hidden Betrayal That Can Destroy a Marriage ...
Why Your Body Feels Sick After Betrayal: Understanding Anxiety, Insomnia, and Trauma Symptoms Through God’s Design | E288
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why Am I Experiencing Physical Symptoms Like Anxiety, Insomnia, or Nausea After Betrayal? Your body...
Forgiveness vs Reconciliation: Understanding the Biblical Difference After Betrayal | E287
31 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What’s the Difference Between Forgiveness and Reconciliation After Betrayal? Forgiveness and recon...
Can the Unfaithful Truly Heal After Sexual Betrayal? The Truth About Repentance, Recovery, and Redemption | E286
28 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can the unfaithful truly recover from sexual betrayal? In this powerful mini episode, Lisa dives in...
The Healing Power of Journaling After Infidelity: 3 Prompts to Release Fear and Reconnect with God | E285
24 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After betrayal, fear and anxiety can feel like constant companions—keeping you up at night, floodi...
How Trauma-Informed Care Heals Betrayal Trauma (Mind, Body & Spirit) | E284
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your marriage has been shattered by infidelity or sexual addiction, you don’t just feel heart...
5 Effective Strategies for Healing from Betrayal Trauma | E283
17 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Betrayal trauma leaves deep emotional and spiritual wounds — but healing is possible. In this powe...
The Role of Grief in Betrayal Trauma Recovery: How God Uses Sorrow to Bring Healing and Hope | E282
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Grief is often misunderstood in the healing journey after betrayal—but it’s absolutely essential...
Why Do Some Men Cheat (and Others Don’t)? The 5 Root Causes Backed by Science, Scripture & Truth | E281
10 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do some men betray the ones they love while others remain faithful? In this 12-minute mini-teach...
How is Betrayal Trauma different from other Traumas? | E280
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this mini episode, Lisa answers one powerful question: How does betrayal trauma differ from other...
Beliefs We Take On After Betrayal (and How to Break Free with God’s Truth) | E279
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When betrayal hits, it doesn’t just break your heart—it plants toxic beliefs in your mind. Maybe...
Understanding Addiction, Affairs & Trauma: Why Healing Starts with Seeing the Full Picture | E278
26 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What really happens to a marriage after infidelity, porn addiction, or emotional affairs? In this ey...
How to Rebuild Trust God’s Way: Why Blind Trust Isn’t Enough After Infidelity | E277
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When betrayal shatters your marriage, trust doesn’t automatically come back with time—it must be...
Respect Lost: 5 Steps for the Unfaithful Spouse to Earn It Back | E276
19 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa speaks directly to the unfaithful spouse about one o...
How Can I Reconcile with a Husband Who Cheated on Me? | E275
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can you reconcile with a husband who cheated and broke your heart into a trillion pieces? In thi...
5 Signs You’re Moving from the Shock of Betrayal into True Healing | E274
12 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When betrayal first hits, the shock is overwhelming—you feel frozen, gasping for air, and wonderin...
3 Steps to Rebuild Trust in Marriage Through Consistency | E273
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After betrayal, trust can feel impossible to rebuild. But here’s the truth: trust isn’t restored...
How to Talk About the Betrayal Without Retraumatizing Each Other | E272
05 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you talk about betrayal without causing more pain? After infidelity, every conversation about...
What It Means to Rebuild Safety with Your Wife after Betrayal | E271
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After betrayal, one of the deepest wounds a wife carries is the loss of safety. In this powerful epi...
3 steps to take when You Resent Doing the Healing Work After Betrayal | E270
29 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you resentful that you’re the one doing all the healing work after betrayal? It feels unfair—...
Why Sexual Sobriety Includes Your Thought Life | E269
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sexual sobriety is about more than your behavior—it begins in your thought life. In this episode o...
How to Explain Betrayal Trauma to People Who Don’t Understand—Therapists, Pastors, Family, and Friends | E268
22 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever tried to explain betrayal trauma to a therapist, pastor, family member, or friend—on...
5 Signs He Is Gaslighting You — And How to Stop It for Good | E267
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is he gaslighting you after betrayal? In this powerful episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Lime...
Rebuilding Trust: A Daily Check-In That Heals, Not Hurts | E266
15 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After betrayal, rebuilding trust can feel impossible—especially if every conversation starts to fe...
How to Show Your Wife You Are Becoming a New Man after Betrayal | E265
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re the unfaithful spouse wondering how to rebuild trust after infidelity, this episode is f...
How to Handle Seeing the Other Woman in Public Without Falling Apart | E264
08 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you unexpectedly see the other woman in public? Today's episode is vulnerable an...
The First Boundary Every Couple Needs to Protect Their Healing Journey | E263
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When healing after betrayal, there is one boundary that absolutely must be in place before trust can...
You Didn’t Fail as a Wife: Why His Choice to betray you is Not Your Burden to Carry | E262
01 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When your husband chooses infidelity, it’s easy to internalize the betrayal and wonder, “What di...
Guilt vs. True Remorse: Why It Matters for Your Healing After Betrayal | E261
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can you tell if your husband is truly remorseful or just feeling guilty after infidelity? In thi...
The Truth About How Long Betrayal Recovery Really Takes | E260
25 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How long does it really take to heal after betrayal? Today's episode is for couples who are seeking ...
No More Secrets: The Power of Full Therapeutic Disclosure in Affair Recovery | E259
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Commit to Full Disclosure: Why Secrets Keep You Stuck After Infidelity Today, I'm revealing why ful...
3 Steps to Begin Healing After Betrayal—Even If He Does Nothing | E258
18 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if your healing didn’t have to wait for his recovery? Today, I'm sharing 3 practical, hope-fi...
Why Her Pain After Betrayal Isn’t Manipulation | E257
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After an affair or sexual betrayal, many husbands misinterpret their wife’s pain, anger, or bounda...
PTSD After Betrayal: Why Your Body Feels Broken (and How to Start Healing) | E256
11 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re experiencing panic, flashbacks, or constant anxiety after discovering your spouse’s be...
Boundaries or Control? How Christian Women Can Set Limits Without Losing Themselves | E255
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are your boundaries truly healthy—or are they quietly controlling? In today’s episode of Beauty ...
How to Ground Yourself When a Trigger Hits in Public | E254
04 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt panic rise out of nowhere while standing in line at the grocery store, sitting in...
Helping Her Heal: 5 Ways to Support Your Wife After Betrayal | E253
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
She just found out. The truth is out. Now what? In today’s episode, I'm speaking directly to the m...
How to Separate Your Worth from Their Betrayal | E252
27 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When betrayal shatters your marriage, it often feels like it shatters you, too. In today's episode o...
Why It’s Not Your Job to Fix Him: The Truth That Will Set You Free After Betrayal | E251
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever found yourself thinking, “If I could just help him, maybe this wouldn’t have happe...
Creating Your Post-Betrayal Self-Care Plan: More Than Bubble Baths and Pedicures | E250
20 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After betrayal, self-care isn’t a luxury — it’s a lifeline. In this powerful episode, I break ...
Regulating Your Nervous System After Betrayal: 3 Surprising Techniques That Bring Real Relief | E249
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After betrayal, it’s not just your heart that breaks—it’s your nervous system that goes into s...
Was It My Fault? The Dangerous Lie of Self-Blame After His Affair | E248
13 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Was It My Fault? The Dangerous Lie of Self-Blame After His Affair After the betrayal, it’s the que...
Biblical Intimacy vs. Cultural Lies: Reclaiming Sexual Confidence and Wholeness After Betrayal | E247
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does true intimacy look like through God’s eyes—and how do we reclaim it after the devastat...
You’ve Been Caught—Now What? 5 Steps to Take Full Ownership After Betrayal Without Making Excuses | E246
06 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve been exposed. The affair… the pornography… the betrayal—it’s no longer hidden. But ...
Redefining Your Worth After Infidelity: Why Betrayal Doesn’t Change Who You Are E245
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When betrayal shatters your heart, it’s easy to believe the lie that it also shattered your worth....
Why You’re So Exhausted After Betrayal — And How to Reclaim Rest, Health, and Hope | E244
30 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Exhausted after betrayal? You're not crazy—you're carrying trauma in your body. In this episode, l...
10 Signs of Blame Shifting & Deflection and How to Stop the Toxic Cycle | E243
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband thinking, “How did I end up apolog...
Manipulation & Coercive Control After Betrayal: How to Spot It and Break Free | E242
23 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is it love—or control? In this powerful episode, I'm exposing 10 subtle yet devastating ways manip...
How to Recognize and Respond When Your Spouse Gaslights You During or After Betrayal (and What to Do About It) | E241
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you constantly questioning your memory or feeling like you're "too sensitive" after your spouse'...
When Betrayal Becomes Emotional Abuse: What the Bible Says and How to Break Free | E240
16 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you experienced betrayal and now feel confused, emotionally shattered, or even manipulated? Thi...
How Do I Know If I’ve Been Betrayed? Understanding the Signs and First Steps to Healing | E239
13 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
“Am I just being too sensitive… or has my husband really betrayed me?” If you’ve found yours...
Does the Unfaithful Spouse Really Experience Affair Detox? | E238
09 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we're diving into a topic that often confuses and even hurts the betrayed spouse — the idea...
Healing After Betrayal: 7 Questions Christian Couples Ask After Infidelity and Sexual Addiction - PART 2 | E237
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve just found out about the affair or addiction. Your world has flipped upside down — and al...
How Enmeshment Sabotages Healing After Betrayal — And How to Break Free God's Way | E236
02 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we’re diving deep into a powerful topic that isn’t talked about enough but can absolutely...
Emotional vs. Physical Affairs: Which Hurts More and How to Heal God's Way | E235
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I hear this time and time again... “Does an emotional affair hurt just as much as a physical one?”...
The Real Danger of ‘Just Moving On’ After Betrayal: Why Skipping the Healing Process Will Destroy Your Marriage | E234
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been told to “just move on” after betrayal? Or maybe you’ve said it to yourself...
HELP! My mind is being hijacked by intrusive thoughts after betrayal | E233
18 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do intrusive thoughts keep hijacking your mind after betrayal? You’re not crazy, and you’re cert...
Uncovering the Truth About Infidelity: 5 Deceptive Excuses and the Real Reasons Behind Marital Affairs | E232
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, we're diving deep into a question so many Christ...
“Healing After Betrayal: 7 Questions Christian Couples Ask After Infidelity and Sexual Addiction” - Part 1 | E231
12 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve recently discovered infidelity, an affair, or your spouse’s struggle with sexual addic...
5 Clear Signs of Gaslighting After Betrayal — And How Christian Women Can Stop the Emotional Abuse for Good | E230
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband feeling...confused? Especially after...
What Really Happened to Me on D-Day: The Impact of Discovering My Husband's Affair | E229
03 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
D-Day. The day everything changed. The day I discovered my husband was having an affair. For me, it ...
Why the Pain of Betrayal Feels Unbearable—5 Powerful Reasons to Embrace It for True Healing | E228
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The pain of his betrayal feels unbearable, doesn’t it? Like a weight pressing down on your chest, ...
How Betrayal Trauma Affects the Body, Mind, and Spirit: Christian Insights on Healing After Infidelity | E227
25 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode, Christian marriage coach and betrayal trauma specialist Lisa Limehouse exp...
From Betrayal to Breakthrough - Katie and Michael Bommarito's Story | E226
21 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today is Part 2 with our Special Guests - Katie & Michael Bommarito They will be sharing the sec...
From Sexual Addiction and Betrayal to Restoration and Breakthrough - Katie and Michael Bommarito's Story | E225
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today I have some special guests! First, my hubby is in the house! So excited to have him by my side...
3 Ways to Help You Heal without Denying Your Pain | E224
11 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever felt pressure to “just move on,” to suppress your emotions, or to act like ever...
3 Biggest Mistakes That Keep You Stuck when you're healing from betrayal | E223
07 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I want to get real with you today... Healing after betrayal is hard. Some of you have been doing all...
When Your Husband Won’t End the Affair – What You Can (and Can’t) Do | E222
04 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I am asked this question quite often, "My husband is having and affair and he refuses to stop. What ...
Stop Competing with the Affair Person—5 Ways to Break Free | E221
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do women fall into the trap of comparing themselves to the affair person after betrayal? In toda...
Is Masturbation and Pornography Really Cheating in a Christian Marriage? | E220
21 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
🚨TRIGGER WARNING🚨 Today's episode tackles a tough but necessary question that many Christian c...
Why Women Self-Sabotage After Marital Betrayal (and How to Break Free) | E219
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why Do Women Self-Sabotage After Betrayal? After betrayal, the emotional pain can feel overwhelming....
When Your Family Doesn’t Support Your Decision to Reconcile After Betrayal: 3 Strategies to Reopen Communication | E218
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
One of the most painful aspects of choosing to reconcile after marital betrayal is facing the disapp...
3 Reasons Why Healing Happens Quicker in a Group Coaching Program for Betrayal Trauma | E217
09 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ready to reclaim your life and restore your marriage after betrayal? Do you wonder if you co...
5 Top Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma and How to Begin Healing | E216
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve been struggling with overwhelming emotions, confusion, or even physical symptoms after b...
5 Steps to Re-Regulate Your Nervous System After Betrayal | E215
27 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Emotional dysregulation is a state where your emotions feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or out of c...
3 ways to begin healing from Betrayal Trauma | E214
16 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What Is Betrayal Trauma? And... Is it even real? If you’ve ever felt dismissed or wondered whether...
What happens to you when you find out your spouse has betrayed you | E213
13 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
D-Day—discovery day—is a moment that forever alters the landscape of your life. It’s the day w...
2024 Recap and What's to Come in 2025! | E212
09 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
2024 was a year of EXPLOSIVE growth for Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast! Thank you for being such a...
5 Practical Ways to Stop Reliving the Pain of Betrayal | E211
16 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is one many of you have asked for: "How to Stop Reliving the Pain of Betrayal." Be...
3 Tips to Help You Thrive During the Holiday Season Even in the Midst of Betrayal | E210
06 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The holiday season can be one of the most beautiful times of the year, but let’s be real—it can ...
5 Practical Ways to Walk in Faith while Healing from Betrayal | E209
02 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today's episode dives into a topic that lies at the heart of healing after betrayal: The Role of Fai...
How can I be thankful for anything when my husband’s betrayal has shattered my world? | E208
28 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, we’re tackling a deeply raw and vulnerable question: How can I, as the betrayed spouse, be ...
How to Communicate With Your Spouse After Betrayal | E207
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you completely shutdown since you discovered your husband's betrayal? When he opens his mouth ...
How to Help your Friend who just found out She's been Betrayed by her Husband | E206
15 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into a delicate but crucial topic: how to support a friend who’s just dis...
Supporting a Friend Through Marital Betrayal: What to Say (and Not Say) | E205
11 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is a very important one. We’re diving into how to support a friend who has just ...
Behavior Modification VS True Heart Transformation in the unfaithful spouse | E204
31 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Whether you’re struggling with betrayal trauma, learning to set boundaries, or rediscovering your ...
How do I know if he really repented from the betrayal? | E203
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Is there really a difference between confession and true repentance? What if he only confessed the...
The Number 1 Mistake most Couples make when seeking to Heal from Marital Betrayal | E202
22 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
One of the most common mistakes I see couples make when trying to rebuild trust after betrayal is ru...
We are Celebrating our 200th Episode on Beauty Beyond Betrayal today!!!
22 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We are Celebrating our 200th Episode on Beauty Beyond Betrayal today!!! Make sure to leave us a 5 st...
Why Do I Keep Getting Triggered by My Spouse's Betrayal (and How Do I Stop)?" | E200
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
:: Today, we’re diving into a topic I hear about often—emotional triggers. You might find yourse...