Supporting Children Through Domestic Violence and Family Trauma

Join us as we explore the often-overlooked impact of domestic violence on children in this episode. Our special guest, Ireland's Edel Lawlor, shares her extensive experience working with children affected by domestic violence both in women's refuges and in her private practice as a child and adolescent psychotherapist specializing in play therapy. Edel provides profound insights into how children, although often silent, express their trauma through behaviors and play themes rather than verbal communication. We also discuss the challenges children face during parental litigation and why therapy might not always be beneficial in such situations due to external pressures and the need for court reports.We tackle the emotional turmoil children endure during parental separation and emphasize the importance of acknowledging and validating a child's perceptions, as ignoring their awareness can heighten fear and anxiety. The conversation covers the necessity of therapeutic support for children, the significance of honest and age-appropriate communication, and the distress caused by parental questioning after visits with the other parent. We underscore the critical role parents play in providing a sense of security and understanding during these turbulent times.Finally, we shift our focus to the profound psychological impact of domestic violence on children and the complexities of parenting through such circumstances. We highlight the importance of relationships in healing, referencing Dr. Bruce Perry's work on child trauma and his collaboration with Oprah Winfrey. Additionally, we introduce the concept of "safe fights" in therapy as a method to help children process trauma through controlled, playful interactions. This nuanced approach illustrates the essential support needed for children affected by domestic violence. We discuss the international experience of an expert in expressive play, who shares her work across various countries and her impactful TEDx talk on "Unconditional Kindness Towards Children." This episode is a compelling exploration of empathy, care, and the intricate support systems required for nurturing young minds affected by trauma.

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