Keep things short with natural end points
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How does scheduling short calls on car trips create a natural endpoint for conversations?
This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's tip is to keep it short with natural endpoints. With careful scheduling, you can potentially avoid conversations running a lot longer than you want them to. So I was talking recently with someone who mentioned always calling a particular relative during a very short car trip. She could say hello and check in, see how things were going. But the trip was going to end in a few minutes. This provided a natural end point and avoided any worries that this relative, who was known for being a bit talkative, would be able to extend the conversation for too long. This made the conversations feel more pleasant for her. And because of that, she kept calling.
I think this is wise. I know people have varied feelings about talking on the phone in the car, but in general, it might be possible to schedule conversations that you would like to keep short to times when there are natural endpoints.
Why does mentioning a time limit at the start make brief conversations easier to keep short?
You could call someone you want to speak with briefly in the 10 minutes before a meeting starts. You could call someone from the boarding area of a plane when you are about to get on. The idea is to identify points in your schedule where there are natural transitions to something else that you are going to need to do, and there is not much to be done about that. Then when you are beginning the conversation, you can mention that you need to be off in 10 minutes for whatever the reason is, and you are so excited to talk and catch up. Now, obviously, you can always just get off the phone. And you can tell people you only have 10 minutes, even if you have all the time in the world. But I know that many of us have a hard time doing that.
Boundaries can be challenging.
What are practical examples of natural transition points to schedule short calls?
And sometimes people push back. So conversations can go on for a while. The problem with that is that then you pull away from having conversations that you don't actually have to have. It is hard to motivate yourself to make a call when you know it is going to take an hour on a day when you don't have an hour. Calling on a short car trip works because then you do it. There is something else beyond you enforcing the boundary. You have to clock in at work or go to your first meeting. You have to go get on that train. So if there's anything you would like to keep short, look to schedule it at a time with a natural endpoint. You may be more likely to make it happen when you know it won't go on forever.
How do natural endpoints reduce resistance to making time-limited calls?
In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time.
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Chapters
7 chapters
1
What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:00–0:30
2
How does scheduling short calls on car trips create a natural endpoint for conversations?
0:30–1:46
3
Why does mentioning a time limit at the start make brief conversations easier to keep short?
1:46–2:40
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What are practical examples of natural transition points to schedule short calls?
2:40–3:36
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How do natural endpoints reduce resistance to making time-limited calls?
3:36–4:48
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What are strategies for enforcing boundaries when conversations start to overrun?
4:48–5:25
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How can using natural endpoints help you make more calls and make better use of time?
5:25–5:47