165: Decenter Men & Watch Your Entire Life Change
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What does “de‑centering men” mean and why does it matter?
The episode you've been waiting for on the Being Her podcast is finally here. How to decenter men. And watch your life change. Watch the men flood to your gates, to your doors, and you like Helen of Troy shall dismiss them because you've dissented them. You don't care about them. They are gone. They're not interesting to you any more. Listen to me and listen to me good. Once you unlock the secret of decentering men, You will not just have men, but You will have everything flocked to you. Opportunities, the universe, God, manifestation, work, career. Frickin' hell animals are gonna come out the woods like your snow mother effin whites and trail behind you. as you glorify yourself with your feminine energy.
But jokes aside, I think and those aren't jokes, by the way, those are real. This I'm just saying jokes aside for the sensitive ears who cannot comprehend such magnitude and such glory, but What I think I've learnt in my thirty plus years Is In my twenties, look, in my teens, men did not exist. Like they existed like maybe um Backstreet Boys on Posters and Jack from Titanic, things like that. Then in my twenties, men became quite an obsession. Not because I was obsessed with men, but because societally in an every way, you're just conditioned and programmed and hormonally. Your estrogen is like, hey, I want to be pleasing to men. I want to be pleasing to society. I want to be pleasing to everybody. So it's very natural.
It's very glorious. It's very amazing. But if you siphon it correctly, and when you get a little bit older and you have your children and you kind of relax a little bit because you're like, wow, I don't have to, you know, marry someone and have kids anymore. You understand fully all the mistakes and all the Spades you stepped on and hit yourself in the face with when it comes to men and why decentering them in every possible way is the way to both have a life that has no men in it for those of you who are not interested in them. And for those of you who do want a man and do want marriage, I love that. I love men and marriage. I love men and marriage and babies. I am a number one fan of men, marriage, and babies.
They are great, but they can't Yeah. the main event. Because then You lose yourself, you lose them, and you lose the whole purpose of living and become a mess, a hot mess, and I don't want that for you. My channel and my books and my work and all my masterclasses, which by the way, have gotten a makeover, and there is a pathway for you to become exactly who you need to be, and you can check them out in my description box below. There's a whole feminine energy pathway, there's a detachment pathway. Do you want to be a feminine energy queen? Go that pathway. Do you want to be a detached goddess and have manifestation that you want? Go that way. To show you the beauty of the masterclasses that we have created kindly with our bare hands.
Those pathways were very interesting for me because it was that whole journey of feminine energy and detachment that led me to now I feel a third phase coming on. I think that every time I write a book and my new book, um Unbothered is coming out soon, in a few days, in a few mere weeks, um Unbothered, it's almost like an encapsulation of an idea or a concept that my mind was concocting for use. So first it was the feminine energy era and we have the new rules book. And then it was the unbothered era because we were so attached to men, so anxiously attached. Just And that was this book here, Unbothered, which is coming out. And the third and not final part, I was gonna say final part, we're no we're nowhere near final.
The fo third part of our journey, ladies and germs, is to understand d decentering of men and to understand the centering of your own selfish self and your own journey and becoming who you're meant to be, becoming the main character, becoming so glowing, so juicy, s so succulent, that the world can't even handle it. So let's start it now. Let's start our new era of dis decentering men and To unlock that from your brain, and I'm gonna teach you everything I know in creating your career.
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Chapters
4 chapters
1
What does “de‑centering men” mean and why does it matter?
0:08–5:08
2
How does obsessive focus on men create anxiety, over‑thinking, and emotional dependence?
5:08–9:34
3
Why is male validation an addiction and how can you break free from it?
9:34–15:44
4
What are the ten practical ways to stop making relationships your identity?
15:44–31:22
Speakers
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