169: 7 Things Unbothered Women Never Do
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What does it mean to be an Unbothered Woman and why does it matter?
Today, ladies, we're gonna talk about seven things unbothered women never do. And I feel like we all understand what being unbothered means. It means being the girl, the girl you all want to be. The girl who so de-centers men and so centers herself that everything just starts to unlock like a manifestation puzzle in her life. And the reason I'm Bringing this specific episode to you today is because Unbothered Woman, my five-week intensive, beautiful, juicy masterclass is starting again at the end of June. And if you join the wait list, you will get it for a lower price, right? And the reason I'm talking about it now is because in that five-week program, we get totally unbothered, and we totally totally regulate ourselves and we stop auditioning for men and we stop doing all this garbage we've been doing.
But in order to do that, we first need to understand what these women never do and these are seven things that I forbid you to do. Forbidden wrong, Jessica, you may not act this way. And they're all for a very good cause. But at the end of this video, you're gonna say, but how? And there will be nuggets of howness throughout this video or throughout this concept. But if you truly want to do the actual work, the worksheets, the group, the WhatsApp group that I have a specific phone for, because it pops off like a nightclub in in the 2000s, okay? Then you can do that. Or you can just watch this content because it's very juicy, very good, very Amazing. So the whole idea of unbothered, and when I went on the morning show and when I do interviews about the book or when I go on people's podcasts, they're like, what's unbothered?
Like you don't care about anything. Wrong, interviewer. Wrong. That is wrong. I care. You don't stop loving. You don't stop caring. You don't stop being a human being. It's not about acting like you are nonchalant. Although sometimes that does work very well on men. If you want tricks about men, I also have feminine energy courses about how to trick those men, trick them into being yours forever. But let's go through the seven principles of seven principles of unbothered womanhood. And that is the first step into what you must do in order to then unlock the rest of your life and have the time, effort, energy, beauty, all of these things in order to unlock the best version of your life and yourself. Okay? So number one, they never chase clarity.
When I say this line to you that I'm about to say next to. Yeah. You will understand the true meaning of what I mean. Chasing clarity is a different form of begging. What? Say it louder for the people in the back. Chasing clarity from someone is a different form of begging. Huh. Are we a doggy? No we're not. He doesn't want to be with you, but why Rupert? But why? He doesn't want to be with you. That's all we want to know. He doesn't want to spend weekends with you and would rather spend it with the boys. But why, Jacob? Doesn't matter. Doesn't matter because clarity is not what's important because when you chase clarity, chase being the operative word, when you just ask for clarity one time, that is not chasing Patricia.
No no no. Chasing is c asking more than once. Um, when they give you an answer like, Oh, I don't know, I just wanna be with the guys this weekend, but why, but why that's chasing. If he doesn't sometimes people don't know why they act the way they do. his guy friends might make him feel more seen, I know as as ironic as that sounds. Sometimes men prefer video games because there is a rule book in there. Like they can actually win at it. Sometimes you're too good for the guy, and I know this sounds like counterintuitive and stupid, but I'll tell you right now, breaking up with a good woman sometimes feels like freedom for a guy. Sometimes he doesn't want your goodness, your good ass. All he wants is to be himself and you with your goodness and your good self and your good habits and your rah rah rah and good career are just making him feel shit about himself.
Not your fault, but you have decided to date down and you're constantly trying to change him.
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