170: Why Selfish Women Get The Life You Want
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Why does Margarita say selfishness is the missing ingredient for a woman’s life?
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Why selfish women get the life that you want? And you're not getting the life that you want. What is going on? I'm gonna tell you. That selfishness is the number one ingredient that you need to sprinkle upon your life as a woman, as a feminine energy goddess, in order to get what you want. Because without said selfishness, and we're gonna flip selfishness on its head and the entirety of what it means, you know what's selfish as well? Do you know what's selfish? If you're watching this, I am currently in my car. in a secret hidden car park and right now there's a man to my right. Just watching me. Why are you watching me, brother? You're selfish enough already. You don't need to be more selfish, okay? So Why selfish women get the life that they want and why you should be more selfish to unlock everything you've ever, ever wanted.
It's dawned on me lately, as we arrive in our new era, that there are several principles of feminine wisdom that I need to teach you in order for you to unlock your potential. Because we've we we've Thought about men. We've talked about what we're gonna do with them, how we're gonna do it, everything that's gonna happen, A, B, C, D, F, G until the cows come home. That's great. We've got men on lock. If we're still a little bit bothered about men, go and do my unbothered women. It's live at the moment. But what we have not learned is what to focus on when we're not focusing on men and minutiae and friendships, right? And the first unlock, this is gonna be a series, okay, of things that you need to be. The first unlock is selfishness.
Now, selfishness, we're taught in today's society in the modern world, is a bad thing for a woman to be. But I'm gonna tell you different. When I became selfish, and it was very hard for me, and I still find it hard. hard. If I was to be hand on heart honest, I struggle with it all the time. But when I lock into my selfish era, that is when things start to happen for me. That's when books manifest. That's when I get the jobs I want, the kids I wanted. Not that you can be selfish and have kids, but the way I show up as a mom, all of it is very, very much unlocked when I tap into my selfishness, okay? Because we are trained as women to very much self-sacrifice in the world. We self-sacrifice and we think that is going to get us the rewards that we want.
And I'm here to tell you, Jessica, that it is not. going to do that, okay? If you are not selfish, you cannot have boundaries in the way that you want. You can't have standards. You can't have ambition. You can't have the rest you want because oh my God, somebody else needs something quickly from you. Okay. Somebody needs something. Why is this battery dying? Rude? Somebody needs something from you. You see, everybody always needs something from you and you cannot live up to your full potential. Now what I never wanna hear you say is that I don't love you. If you are watching this, you will see locations changed. Why? because the battery died. The battery died and so I went to get a new one in order to make sure that we can keep recording, ladies and gents.
What are you still pretending to die for? The thing that we need to debunk about this whole selfish concept, right? Which I'm clearly not being 'cause I drove all the way to get a new battery to be here. But anyway, guys, we're we're all fam. We're all fam. I'd do it for you anytime. Is it's not narcissistic, it's not cruel, it's not self-absorbed, and it's not intrinsically selfish in the way we are taught what selfish means to be selfish. You are on this earth to look after yourself predominantly first, in order to then look after other people. We have been trained mind that self depletion, self sacrifice and all of these things are honourable. They are only honorable if you do them from a replenished source.
Or they're honorable if you're in some kind of dire situation where you need to sacrifice yourself, which of course I would, if for your children, for your greater community and all those things. Of course you would.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why does Margarita say selfishness is the missing ingredient for a woman’s life?
0:01–7:33
2
How does asking for what you want help selfish women get the life they want?
7:33–10:02
3
Why should selfish women stop volunteering for self‑sacrifice?
10:02–13:01
4
What does it mean for selfish women to not be afraid of disappointing people?
13:01–14:43
5
How does spending money on yourself empower selfish women?
14:43–17:10
6
Why is protecting your energy a key habit of selfish women?
17:10–18:23
7
How do higher standards shape the lives of selfish women?
18:23–19:19
8
What is the irony of life that selfish women understand?
19:19–25:08
Speakers
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