173: Why Vain Women Win
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Why do people claim vanity is shallow and how does that affect women?
Him the giraffe.
Baby, they told women that vanity and caring how you look Is a sin and it's bad because they were afraid that women who paid attention to themselves. Would eventually start liking themselves. Yeah. Looks don't matter. Your soul matters. But in this world here, this tangible world where things are material. They are trying to keep you ugly. To keep them down. They're trying to tell you it doesn't matter. They're trying to make you believe that if you self-beautify and you give more to yourself and you look after yourself, that you are vain, you are yuck, you are disgusting, you are like a Kardashian, you are vacuous. All you care about is you boot bots and boobs and rah-rahra. You clicked on this. And my mic died and this raining because this is gonna be a evil little episode, okay?
We're gonna discuss the reality of this world and what it means to be a woman. And vanity. And self beautification, because how we've walked it in modern society isn't where it is, baby girl. It's not about youth, it's not about any of that, and it's not about the male gaze, it's about how you see yourself and how you can manipulate the male gaze. Yes, I said it. If they are so easily pivoted by beauty, then why not pivot them? Because let me tell you, if you've ever argued with a man while you look good versus arguing with a man while you look like a rat. You will know? That you won the argument very quickly when you looked good. And why not use what we have? If they are confused and bamboozled by beauty, then let's use it.
Furthermore. As a woman, as the feminine, the more you put into yourself and the more you like yourself, the more the universe likes you. That's just a formula.
What is “pretty privilege” and how can women use it strategically?
If you were a man listening to this, I would say give more. Give more to the universe, give more to those around you, because then the universe is gonna reciprocate and love you more as you are designed to give, right? Be more vain. Use your pretty privilege. I don't care if you think you're ugly. You could be two points less ugly. It's not a point system, but you could do something for yourself. You can beautify yourself. Did you know that in ancient Rome? Soldiers used to beautify themselves once they were of a certain rank of manhood. They used to wear certain regalia, they used to look a certain way. But when you were a boy, you were scruffy. You were just a boy, you were a kid, you didn't used to wear gold and adornment.
Adornment is a historical thing. It's lasted throughout history, th through many, many decades of what that means through Norse cultures, Russian cultures, all kinds of cultures, African, everything has self-beautification. But no, we're taught these days, oh you're Sovain, you only care about what you look like. What does only care about what you look like mean? That is so stupid. I've had times in my life and we'll go into motherhood and beauty and all these things later, where I stopped thinking about what I looked like. I stopped thinking about what I looked like. It didn't matter to me. And those were not the times where I put my best foot forward. Having had a daughter now as my second child. I care more what about what I look like than I did when I was younger because I want her to see me and to see me as a damn Disney princess and be proud of me.
And you might be watching this and you might be like, but still you're ugly. I don't care. I'm prettier for me than I was when I didn't understand how I would look good. Do you understand what I'm saying? It's about where it's about competing with yourself, not about other people. We're not trying to be supermodels here unless you're of a supermodel status, then go you. I'm gonna talk about it at a point structure because that is how my brain works, okay? I'm a Virgo, so that's what we do. Number one. The first place when you're working with beauty and who you are and getting the most of what you want because I'm a strategist. I just want you to get what you mo what you want out of this world and that is all I want.
Okay. I don't care about everything else.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why do people claim vanity is shallow and how does that affect women?
0:01–2:08
2
What is “pretty privilege” and how can women use it strategically?
2:08–5:06
3
How does looking good change a woman’s behavior and opportunities?
5:06–7:31
4
Why was the word “bimbo” created and what does it say about beauty and intelligence?
7:31–10:42
5
How is vanity a form of self‑investment rather than selfishness?
10:42–14:50
6
Why is a woman’s appearance considered her first communication?
14:50–18:40
7
Why should mothers embrace vanity as a duty to their children?
18:40–22:53
8
How do vanity, self‑hatred, and self‑desire differ and why does it matter?
22:53–26:58
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