In today’s episode, I’m getting real about the moment I didn’t look at the facts and how my relationship paid the price. If you’re an overthinker, a scenario-maker, a “what if” queen, or someone who keeps searching for problems when there are none… this episode is for you. Because here’s the hard truth: 👉 Overthinking in relationships isn’t emotional intelligence. 👉 It’s avoidance. 👉 And it quietly pushes safe, loving partners away. If you’ve ever wondered, “Wait… am I the drama?” (lovingly), you’re in the right place. In this episode we talk about: ✨ Why anxious attachment makes you question healthy relationships ✨ How self-sabotage shows up as “being logical” or “being cautious” ✨ The difference between facts vs. stories your anxiety creates ✨ Why safe love can feel boring, uncomfortable, or “wrong” at first ✨ How trying to control conversations and outcomes kills intimacy ✨ What it actually takes to stop pushing good people away I also share a personal update after my hysterectomy recovery, how this same self-sabotage pattern showed up in my health journey, and why anxious attachment isn’t just about dating... it’s about how we avoid deeper emotional truth in every area of life. If you’re a high-achieving woman who is crushing it in your career but spiraling in your relationship… I see you. You are not broken. You’re just running an outdated emotional system. 🦋 Ready for the deeper work? 🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session

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