Worried they won’t show up for you on Valentine’s Day? Spiraling about whether you’ll feel chosen, loved, or disappointed? This episode is for you. 💔 In this week’s podcast ep, we’re talking about relationship anxiety around Valentine’s Day... and why overthinking romance, surprises, and expectations can actually block the connection you want most. If you’ve ever: - Wondered if you should tell your partner what you want… or stay “chill” - Felt scared to seem needy or high‑maintenance - Lowered your expectations so you don’t get hurt - Fantasized about being chosen without having to ask - Kept score after holidays, gifts, or effort …this conversation will hit home. I’m breaking down the anxious attachment patterns that get activated around Valentine’s Day, including the internal debate of “Do I say something or not?”, people‑pleasing tendencies, and how the pressure to be the “cool girl” creates distance in relationships. We also talk about: ✨ Why overthinking ruins spontaneity and romance ✨ The truth about wanting to feel chosen in relationships ✨ How scorekeeping damages connection over time ✨ What you’re actually in control of (and what you’re not) ✨ How to lead yourself through uncertainty without spiraling Because here’s the hard truth: you are NOT in control of whether your partner “gets it right” on Valentine’s Day… but you are in control of how you show up for yourself. If you struggle with anxious attachment, relationship anxiety, or overthinking a good partner — this episode will help you reset before the holiday and focus on what actually builds secure love. 💌 Ready for deeper support? Inside Healing Girl Gang, we practice the tools and reps that move you from anxious attachment → secure connection. 🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session

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